Like most men, I always assumed cunnilingus was a simple mathematical equation: tongue + clitoris = female ecstasy. There doesn’t seem to be all that much involved in getting a woman to orgasm, as it seems, like a simple flick of the tongue with the right amount of pressure in the right spot. After reading this book, let’s just say I was eager to get practicing to hone my imperfect skills.

She Comes First is a perfect example of an easy to read book. The chapters are all fairly short, the pictures are all hand-drawn but provide enough detail to the reader, and the language isn’t over-the-top medical terminology. The author of the book admits in the beginning chapters that he once struggled with pleasing his wife and premature ejaculation, so it puts the reader at ease that he’s just like one of us who’s found a way to overcome his sexual frustrations.

The book begins first with descriptions of the female orgasm and anatomy. However don’t think of this as a biology lesson, as it’s more of an inside look into common struggles men have in pleasing their partners. The brief yet descriptive chapters of the female anatomy help as a precursor for the remainder of the book, as it goes through techniques, sweet spots that’ll make any woman purr, and much more which all tie back to the various components of the vagina.

I found the rest of the book to be extremely helpful in my quest of satisfying every woman in the world. There are several chapters on routines and techniques to employ during love-making and clitoral stimulation. The author even devotes an entire section of chapters that chronicle each step up, starting from the sweet sensual foreplay, to the climax of bringing your female partner to orgasm and beyond to even multiple orgasms.

And in case you don’t have time to look through all of the chapters for that one particular technique or routine, there is an appendices section that provides nothing but author-tested routines to try, and even includes “routine worksheets” to help you from start to finish (or more like a never-ending ascension). He also gives tips on giving oral sex during those uncommon times, such as when your lady is menstruating or pregnant.

I would highly recommend any male to read this book. I found it very enlightening and well laid out. The book doesn’t read like an erotic novel, nor does it read like a medical journal. It’s a simple book to read, yet holds the reader’s attention throughout. After reading this book, you will definitely have a few new tricks to try, and I can tell you from my experience so far, it’s worked out pretty well.