I have always heard stories form other couples about how sex has become hum-drum after a number of years. I hear how wives and girlfriends seem board in bed or how husbands and boyfriends don't know how to spice things up.

I know that I am lucky that I have a creative husband, a very kinky girlfriend and a pet boyfriend that is up for anything I can dish at him. But I am the kind of girl that is always up for finding new and naughty ideas to throw at all of the.

I picked up Daily Sex-Guides To A Better Sex by Jane Seddon just to see if there was anything at all that was worth while in it.

She talks about how trying new things can bond a couple and can promote "a sense of teamwork and cooperation." She also sets up a different sex position literally for every day of the year, but lets you know that you don't have to start on January the first. There is also drawings that give a visual example of what she is talking about and gives a meter to show the difficulty of the position.

She comes up with fun and playful names for the positions like "splitting at the seams", "dinner for two" and "give the dog a bone." The way that the book is written is very simply and accessible to anyone. It also doesn't take itself seriously at all and knows that there is going to be people laughing as they try out the ideas.

The book is written for straight couples or for lesbians with dildos. It is a bit hard for gay men to adapt the ideas and this is the only real draw back to Daily Sex.

But It really is a fun way to get new ideas and I have found ones that have ended up in my regular sex sessions.

Yeah, I do have Daily Sex still around, but I have found much better things to spice things up for my lovers and myself.