The bitter ugly truth about giving blow jobs is that you just have to go with the flow. There is not a set way to give a blow job. When you meet a partner they do not come with a instruction book that describes their ultimate fellatio experience. So you have to just feel out that person and go for what you know. I read the book Blow Him Away written by Marcy Michaels with Marie Desalle and was not satisfied with the product. The book went over some good points about how to work out your tongue and the best positions to be able to accept your partner but overall this book did nothing to improve my sex life. However, I can efficiently place three cheerios on the roof of my mouth without swallowing them.

In the book, Blow Him Away, the authors are experienced speech therapists who go over different exercises for your tongue and jaw muscles that will ultimately help you perform fellatio. Some of the instructions on how to perform these exercises were not very clear to me. I found most of the tongue exercises to be a little confusing and others to be nearly impossible. I did grasp onto the idea that in order to be able to give a great blow job it is necessary to make sure that your tongue and jaw muscles can handle the task at hand. The book does give you good advice on learning how to "deepthroat" your partner in a comfortable manner without choking. The exercises that focused on that aspect of fellatio were very useful to me and I did learn a lot from them. However, I found through trial and error that my partner did not like most of the advice the book gives. He definitely did not like the suggestion to imitate swallowing while giving fellatio. There were several positions that he just would cringe at the beginning of me performing and only a select few he enjoyed.

With that said, I would say that my experience with the book Blow Him Away was not very useful. However others might like the exercises and positions that the book offers you to please your partner. The book really just went over exercises for your tongue, jaw muscles, and throat to be able to comfortably perform fellatio. It also emphasizes the importance of making sure that your jaw can handle extended periods of sucking and performing a blow job. I found that part of the book to be well informed. I did learn how to be able to perform oral sex longer and more pleasantly for me. Before Blow Him Away, I would have problems with my jaws "locking up" and becoming sore but not since reading the book.

The highlights of this book is that it shows you a step by step method of how to get prepared to deliver a great blow job. The book goes into detail on how to train your tongue and jaw muscles so that you may perform this task comfortably. I would recommend the book to a peer but not strongly. I did not feel as if it were very informative or helpful on giving blowjobs in my personal experience. I give this book a rating of about three stars. I think that there were some points that could be improved upon in the book. My advice to anyone about giving a blowjob personally would be that the penis can never be too wet and to go with the flow. Your partner will lead the way.