I will be honest. I don't watch a lot of porn. Why, you may ask? Well, mostly because porn movies all seem to have the same corny music, the same rough looking worn out actors, and exaggerated sex.

I love sex - all kinds of sex! Having an exhibitionist and voyeuristic side of me, one would think that I would really love porn. I admit; I don't. It were up to me, I would rather watch it live up close and personal. When the opportunity arises, that is exactly what I do.

Tantric sex has always been a curiosity for me. When I saw the Playgirl: Tantric Sex Secrets by Playgirl TV, I decided that it might be a worthwhile DVD to watch. My husband and I both sat down to watch it expecting the typical boring porn movie with unattractive people. We were pleasantly surprised as the movie began to play. The actors were quite young and attractive but not in the "barely legal" category. The first "story" was a bit odd. There was sexual contact but absolutely no penetration. That in itself is a rarity for porn. Tantric Sex is more about the senses and less about penetration, and this is exactly what the video impressed upon me in the beginning.

As the different scenarios began to play out, we began watching more and fast forwarding less. The scenes were arousing, but they also made for great conversation. There was more of a mental connection made between my husband and myself while watching this video. I almost felt like I was sitting in a swingers club watching lovers displaying their passion. There was nothing dirty about the scenes, and I think the fact that many of the actors practiced safe sex was an added bonus.

I am disappointed that the title was about Tantric sex, but the video gave no instruction as to the practices. Perhaps I will need to research a little more about the Tantric practices in order to gain the knowledge that I crave.

Overall, this was a solid video that doesn't nauseate you to watch. The heat is there without the trash. This video will remain part of my collection and is certainly one that I can lend out without being ashamed that I actually own it.