My husband and I were very excited to see this arrive. He has a few masturbators that he is quite fond of, but none that actually looked like anyone's privates. And it does look exactly like her, um, stuff. My first bit of advice on this one is to go and read the information about the material this toy is made of, because the directions for care that come with it are not clear at all. And it does need special care, so be sure and read that section before you use it.

So, He was anxious to try it out and we got right to it. We used a good water-based lube with it, and this has worked well each time. His eyes got really big when he got inside of it for the first time! He says that it feels pretty much exactly like having sex with a real woman. And that is just remarkable, really, for something that isn't real.

He held it in his hand the first time, while laying on his back. This toy is heavy, by the way. One pound doesn't sound like much but when you are actually pumping something that weighs a pound up and down, it can get heavy quickly. He has very strong arms so this was never actually a problem for him, but frankly I couldn't do it.

He was able to fully insert his penis into this. It did pop out the top but he says it still feels wonderful. And I know he loved it because he came in no time! I found it very erotic watching him use it. He did not use the bullet the first time. Clean up was simpler than I thought it would be, we simply let tepid water flow through the hole. It seemed to clean the toy up just fine. He powdered it well with the powder that came with it, and we put it back in the plastic bag it came in.

The next time he went to use it, however, it was still wet inside the hole. So after that, we just sat it in the open air to dry it and this has worked just fine ever since.

He next tried it with the bullet inserted, but he really didn't like this. He says that the bullet heats the material up very quickly and he didn't like the added heat at all. The bullet was a bit too intense for him, as well. It really is very strong even at the lowest setting.

He attempted to use Jesse in the missionary position once but the angle just wasn't right, so that was abandoned. He has also used it standing up, with her sitting on a counter, and that was okay but in the end, he just likes to use this laying on his back and holding it in his hand.

Bottom line is that this toy is totally worth the money! He says he is never going back to his other masturbation sleeves, once you have had Jesse you will never go back. And this is a huge recommendation from him because he really liked those before she arrived. The bullet is too intense and heats up the toy a lot, but other than that, this one would get 10 stars from us if we could give them.

My hubby continues to use this one and still really likes it. It has held up perfectly... not a minute's trouble with it.