I have to say, I waited with eager anticipation to use the SoftTouch Arouser. I had used other toys made of the UR3 material and knew what it felt like against your skin.

My wife and I have, in the past, experimented with cock rings, and they always made her uncomfortable the way they were so abrasive and forceful against her. I was hoping that this time the UR3 would make it a most enjoyable experience for her and me.

When it arrived, I made dinner, lit candles, and ran a warm bath for my wife just to make sure we would get the chance to use it. When our bath was over, she was definitely in the mood for intimate pleasures. We went in to our room, unlocked our toy chest, and retrieved some water based lube, the SoftTouch Arouser, and other various tools. We made sure that there were some fresh batteries installed and began our playtime.

At first glance, the SoftTouch Arouser doesn’t look like the vibrating bullet that comes in the package even goes with it. A closer inspection reveals a tiny little hole at the top edge closest to the extended teasers. In comparison, the bullet and this tiny hole are extremely different in size; however, the elasticity of the UR3 material coupled with a little water based lube (not too much or the bullet will vibrate itself right out of the other side), and problem solved.

With the bullet successfully installed, I still needed a firm erection to place it on. With a new purpose, I decided to place the SoftTouch Arouser’s slightly larger opening over my middle finger instead. I then proceeded to use my entire hand to position the soft vibrating material over my wife’s pleasure zones. As she became increasingly aroused, she began to stroke my pleasure zones, causing an extremely firm erection. Now that the erection problem was solved, I cut her short of orgasm and took the SoftTouch Arouser off of my finger and put it where it belonged, on my nicely firmed cock.

Once it was in place, she impatiently attacked me, slamming me back on the bed and mounting me as if life depended on it. She slammed hard on my erection, pressing me deep into the bed and even deeper into her hole. The soft material of the SoftTouch Arouser made it so pleasurable for her to press against it that she couldn’t get enough. The vibrations actually had a numbing effect on my erection, but not so that I lost it, just enough to allow me to last past the life of the batteries in the wired controller.

When playtime was over, I thought about the wired controller and how it got in the way some of the time. I remembered that we had a similarly sized wireless vibrating bullet from another of our toys. A few nights later, when the opportunity presented itself again (with a fresh set of batteries), we used the SoftTouch Arouser again, but this time with a wireless bullet. The wireless bullet gave us more freedom in our movements, but there is only one speed, high.

The bottom line is that the SoftTouch Arouser feels great when used and could be more fun to use if the included bullet was a variable speed wireless bullet.