The intended use is for men like myself to use this to stimulate the head of their dicks much like a woman may use a vibrator to stimulate her clit. You do need to hold it, especially if the toy is on an incline that could cause it to fall off. I suppose if your dicks head is fat enough after erection it could hold the toy on it without problem. But I would not bet on that. Unlike most male sex toys you do not move this one. I would compare it to a Sybian and if you don't know what one is then do a search on any adult tube site. They look fucking awesome. If I had a girlfriend and the money to buy one of those. I would do it just to watch her use it. Back to the Cobra. I am sure if you wanted, you could sit on this thing and jerk off and you would get to orgasm faster. With the depth on this thing I am sure most men will be able to use it. Length is not going to be a problem as far as being too long. Too short how ever could be a problem but I don't know for sure. Being as it warns against submersing it in water I would not suggest using it while bathing. Maybe during a shower, but even then I think the water would make it difficult. This is because I expect the water would wash away the lube suggested in another review of this product and that would be water based lube. You may want to use this while you are alone because it can be noisy once you have your dick in it with the lube and the heavy vibrating.

The biggest part of this is a hard plastic. It also has a silicone rubber thing for the guys dick. I didn't take the time to smell it and I don't care what it smells like. This is probably not a toy for a person who has no patience. I would consider the rubber to be rather firm, especially when I am use to the FleshLight. You can strech it. But I don't know how much that will help accommodating guys with huge dicks. There is no texture to this product because you do not move it. I don't even know what that adding a texture would help.

I like that you can get this in different colors and while the look is kind of cool. I really don't care how it looks. I care if it works. Now as the design goes, it has a motor which has to have some good strength for the size of the toy and the strength of the vibrations. But I found that this toy seemed to be beating up the head of my dick. I could not orgasm with this thing at first and it wasn't till the day of the writing of this review that I was able to orgasm with it. I was able to get some good feeling from it but I could not orgasm from it. I am not even sure what I did to achieve orgasm. I don't know if it was the vibration setting or maybe it was that I wasn't trying to hold it tighter on my dick. Maybe holding it to tight decreases the effect of the vibration. I will tell you, you have to use lube. Do not try to put your dick in it without. It has to much friction to force your dick in. I tried that a little. But I wasn't willing to hurt my dick to feel pleasure. I would expect that most people are not going to know what this thing is and when they don't know it would be easy to say it's a massager. "Just put your fingers in it and then use it to massage your back or legs." It could be an easy story to pass along. As far as kids, most kids will see it and think it's like a futuristic toy car. As long as you don't freak out when you catch them playing with it. It's not going to be a problem. Although they might freak out a bit when it start vibrating. hahaha

The process of turning it on is pretty simple. You put your finger over the button for a few seconds and it buzzes to life. If you want to take it to a higher level in steps you can do that by tapping the button on the right. If you want to jump to high speed, just hold your finger on that button and it goes straight up the ladder of speeds. The same works the opposite too. Tap the button on the left and feel it slow down a bit or hold your finger there and feel it go completely down the ladder in seconds. But the buttons are really sensitive and at times it seemed that my fingers being in too close a proximity it would go up or down and that was very annoying. I would have it on a setting that felt good and then for some reason it would change and I would be thinking or saying to myself "What the fuck!" When I finally did orgasm from it I had it setting kind of between but on my legs and I placed my hand so it wouldn't fall off. I stopped caring about the noise it made and just let it do it's thing.

Cleaning is really easy for this toy. Because it's made of a more regular rubber, you can use hand soap to clean this thing out. Run some water in it and if needed use a light soap tp clean it out. It is waterproof but should not be submersed. But it's also easy to clean because it's not so deep that you shouldn't be able to get all the way in. Storage isn't that hard either. Use a paper towel to dry it and set it where ever you want. Charging I find to be pretty easy because the magnet charger thing is pretty strong. It's not going to fall off or I wouldn't think it likely to fall off. I did have one time when it was a little off line and it wasn't charging. But it's an easy fix. I don't know if it should only be used with certain types of lubes. The paper that came with it didn't mention it as far as I noticed. But another reviewer said only water based lubes should be used.

The box was kind of cool looking but I really don't care about packaging. I was kind of amazed to see that the charger was packaged separately. This would suggest that some places would make you buy the charger separately. That would really suck if you got it and it didn't have a charger in the box. I would be pissed about that. I do recall the plastic in the box that held the toy in place was kind of hard to get off. I am talking about the product box. The shipping box was the basic brown box.

It took me 3 or 4 times to orgasm using this toy. It did feel good but it took time to be able to orgasm. I was ready to give up on the thing kind of. I would probably have kept trying it and now I have orgasmed with it I will continue to play with and see if I can make it happen again. When I do the second review, if I have figured out what to do to orgasm with this thing for sure. Then I will certainly give tips to help out other people who might have trouble getting off with this toy.