As a female with lots of Tera Patrick brand toys, I thought my boyfriend would like a taste of some Tera Patrick too, and this toy is unbelievable! Fleshlight people really are geniuses with these products.

The Tera Patrick lotus Fleshlight is a hand-held masturbation toy for men. The outside is modeled after Tera Patrick's own hoo-ha, and it feels so.. fleshy! The one weird thing is that the lips are permanently stuck the way they are. If they moved a little, this this could probably be mistaken for a real one!

This Fleshlight is made from SuperSkin, a scarily real, non-allergenic, latex free, and Phthalates free material. It feels incredibly real to the touch, but does tend to get sticky. There is a bit of a smell to it, but from a slight distance it's not noticeable. The Tera Patrick lotus Fleshlight is.. meaty to the touch on the outside. Inside is the "lotus" pattern, which is basically ribs for added stimulation and a tightening and loosening. The fleshy part of the Fleshlight is then placed into a plastic case that makes the whole thing look like a giant heavy duty flash light for toddlers.

My boyfriend was astonished when he used this Fleshlight. He said is felt so real, it actually kinda freaked him out a little. The one downside to the inner Lotus pattern is that the tightening is a bit much. The rest, however, is scarily real. For longer fellows, the Fleshlight might not be big enough to fit all of a guy inside.

As far as discreetness, it's kind of along the lines of any toy that doesn't look like a penis or vagina: as long as no one opens the plastic case or takes much from the word "Fleshlight" scrawled across the case, you're good. But, for anyone with half a clue, seeing this enormous "flashlight" next to the bed might be a little weird.

To clean the Fleshlight, the fleshy insert can be removed from the plastic case. The case is easy to wash. There are three parts to the case that make cleaning a snap: the top cover, main body where the fleshy part goes, and a bottom cap that can be adjusted during use to increase or decrease suction inside.

For the fleshy part, care is a bit of a hassle for guys that are used to popping one off real quick. It needs warm (not hot) water to be run through it, and cannot be cleaned with soap. For a deeper clean, isopropyl alcohol can be used. The outside tends to get a little tacky after use, even after a good cleaning. For this, a sprinkle of corn starch on top puts it back to a soft, powdery, realistic feel.