This sleeve is very simple to use. I simply use a water-based lube and slide myself into the opening. It is easy to grip. I didn't not lose my grip while stroking myself at all. Even after squirting everywhere I was still able to maintain a good grip. No slippage here. If you don't use a lot of lube it is not all that messy. However most of us don't use just enough. To me, masturbation is not so messy it's the cleanup that is the messy part. And it’s time consuming.

I would say that this would fit most average men. It may not cover you completely but you can stretch it to compensate.

I can use this by myself or with my wife. I use this when I am out of town or when my wife says she has a headache. My wife uses it on me as foreplay.

To me this is not a very discreet toy because it is very real looking.

The material is soft and stretchy. There is no real big smell to the material, which is ultra-realistic 3.0 (UR3). The material is thermal plastic elastomer, which is a mixture of PVC and silicone, compounded to mimic real skin. The high molecular density of these materials allows them to be flexible and resilient. If there is a smell to your UR3 try washing it with a mild soap and water to remove the smell before use. This helped with the slight smell of this one. It is latex free and phthalates free. The surface is porous.

It has soft bumps on the inside to make it feel real similar to the inside of the vagina. I was shocked by how realistic it really was. I think the texture of this material adds to the stimulation because it is more realistic. I think any man can use this due to the fact it can stretch. I am a beginner so I would say it is something beginners can use. I would think advanced users could use this as well. As I become an advanced user we will have to see how I feel.

I like the design because the one my wife and I got before was very plain. This was more realistic, which I like a lot more.

This is 5 in long. It is 2 1/4 in height and 1 3/4 in width then it slopes to 1 1/2 width 1 6/16 in height. It is bumpy inside giving it a somewhat realistic feel. The opening is 5/16 wide but can easily stretch over 2 1/2 in wide and that was using my index finger and thumb. If needed, it can easily stretch more. With the size of the hole it gives great suctions and worked very well for us together and for me on my own.

I like the size because it is tight. It would fit most men. We clean this toy up and put it the plastic bag and put it in a discreet bag.

It is not a very discreet toy because if someone sees this they will know what this is for the most part. You will be able to travel with this easily. I take it with me when I am away from my wife for long periods of time.

Wash with a mild soap and water before and after each use. Avoid any harsh soaps, alcohol or ammonia-based cleaners, which will wreck the finish. You can use Doc Johnson's Toy Cleaner as well. Make sure you clean inside and out. Blot dry with a soft cloth or let it air dry. Do not use paper towels, which leave lint on the surface.

You can apply a corn starch but it is not necessary. When storing it, make sure it is not against any other toys, sharp object, abrasives or rubber objects. They tend to melt together. Keep them out of direct sunlight as they tend to fade.

Only water based lubes can be used with UR3 toys.

The palm pal came in a box that was not discreet. You could tell exactly what you were getting. The name of the palm pal is easily seen. The instructions are great that came with it. They were easy to read on a nice piece of paper that was not ripped up. If needed the paper is of good quality so you would be able to store the instruction for a while without them getting all tore up. All the material is recyclable, which is always a plus. You can use the box it came in to wrap it up as a gift.

I used this first by myself. It has a nice grip even if you have lube on your hands. It is a little short as I was sticking out the end. It is tight but not uncomfortable for me. It is stretchy, so holding it at the base and then using my other hand I was able to cover my full length and cause a nice suction and pull. I was able to finish nicely with this.

It was nicer when my wife used this on me. The grip she was able to apply was great. Then she used the same hold at the base of my penis but because this material is easy to manipulate, she was able to push it down and pull in all kinds of ways that drove me crazy.