The best way to use this toy is to lubricate it and then perform a hand job on your hubby with it. All it takes is a mild grip of the toy around your husband's penis and you are good to go. You don't have to have a lot of hand strength to use this toy - especially if you have the right lube(my husband and I use coconut oil - because in between stroking phases, I can also perform oral and have vaginal sex). Your husband can also use this toy to masturbate. It is also easy for him to use and is super hot! It does a great job encouraging ejaculation! And an added bonus is that this toy can catch all the ejaculate inside the toy - for a no mess hand-job - if that's what you prefer!

There is no smell to this toy except maybe with what you use as a lube. It doesn't leave a bad taste in my mouth either. It is thick and rubber-like but floppy....you do have to be careful using it that it doesn't flop all over the place especially when it is lubed up. It you use too much lube it can get on the outside and make the toy very hard to use and grip. I'd say anyone can use this toy from beginners to more advanced users. This was my husband's first sleeve - he loves it and I love it!

The size and fit is exceptional. I love the ridge design and it has certainly not left my man unsatisfied. I have average sized hands and this fits from end to end just about in the palm of my hand. I believe it would fit all penis sizes from average to large and won't disappoint! So overall it is a great fit for the average users! It can travel and can be compacted in a suitcase - although I would keep that in mind when going over to your mother-in-laws and letting her go get anything from the suitcase - that would be a conversation starter...so what's this?

There is very little care to this toy. I use a mild soap to wash it and then let it air dry. I just store it in the bag it comes in and put it with our other toys in our sex bag. As to lubes that would ease the hand-job experience - we use coconut oil, and have used Astroglide. Both do wonders and work extremely well!