Ladies, if you are planning on buying this as a surprise or experimental toy in bed - make sure your guy is cool with it. It goes without saying I guess, however, my guy was a little put off buy it. I am not sure if we will ever use it because I can tell he is a little nervous.

The jelly ring is most certainly soft to the touch, and I really like the way it feels; my guy agrees, but he simply will not wear it. The material isn't as hard as it looks, and it stretches pretty far so it can accommodate anyone.

It is an awesome looking cock ring the vibrator placement up and down, not side to side like most do. It has a ball ring. It can easily be cleaned with soap and water because the vibrator is removable and the material is flexible.

The vibrator that was included uses 3 watch batteries, and is a bit weak, but because it's removable you can put a better one in. Once we replaced the vibrator we found that the vibrations of this ring are strong and travel well throughout the material, but in no way are distracting. My wife found that the vibrator hits just the right spot as she can hit the "big O" usually within just a couple minutes of me putting it on.

This toy is extremely easy to care for. After use just remove the vibrator and wash with some mild soap and warm water, then let it air dry. We've had this toy for over a year and have had no tears in the material and find that it is still going strong.