My husband and I used this for the first time the other night, and to our surprise, it gave him a new feeling that made him squirm a little. Definitely need to add spit or lube, but once you get it wet, it will move and go and make your partner explode in no time! And with the super easy clean-up, you can definitely use it to the finish. I also loved the ease of being able to take it off and on. And I love that I can actually use my mouth with this product while I stroke him. That makes it so much more intense!