The Kabuki Nights tight delight pinch is designed to aid in male masturbation or you can use it as foreplay. The end of it is a vagina, so a man or woman watching their partner finger or lick it could work or you could use it before sex, obviously. It's a handheld toy made out of TPR, so it's very soft and silicone feeling. The outside of the 'holder' is made of plastic. A big difference for this toy from many others like it is that it vibrates! The bottom of the base has a twist off 'cap' that holds the 2 AAA batteries. You can use the dial, also along side the base, to turn the vibrations up, down, or off.

I'm very pleased with the material of this toy, as is my boyfriend. It's made of TPR, which is a very safe material. It is phthalates free, hypo-allergenic, and latex free, so it shouldn't bother men with sensitive skin. TPR is very stretchy as well as plushy feeling and soft. My boyfriend compares the material to a 'soft stress ball' when squeezing it. There are little nubs inside of the toy about 3/4's the way down. They all seem very close together, but looked spaced further apart when turned inside out. I'm assuming this is just from the stretching of being inside out. (My boyfriend says) The nubs definitely stimulate the penis when being used and the soft, plush texture of the toy definitely makes using it feel realistic. (He says) It feels semi-realistic to an actual vagina. He would pick a normal 'hand job' - over the toy - with me, but when masturbating alone, this toy is definitely much better than normal masturbation.

The toy smells almost of a rubber, but not quite. I cannot remember for the life of me what it reminds me off. The toy has been used and washed 5-6 times and it still has the smell, but you cannot smell it unless you put it up to your nose.

I do suggest being careful when cleaning the toy. From turning the toy inside out, the bottom of the toy has began to tear at the edge of the seams and around the little hole in the bottom of it.

The design it super simple to use. The outside of the toy, the plastic holder, it made to come out a little at the top and bottom and then have a pulled in middle, almost like a corset would do to most women. (I had to add some female stuff in here, come on!) This makes it very easy to grip, even when your hands are slippery from lube. He has no trouble dropping the toy and I'm able to use it on him with one or two hands, quickly moving it, and not dropping it.

As for the TPR part of the toy, the actual 'vagina', is 6 inches long, (fits up to) 2 inches wide, and has a depth of 5 inches. My boyfriend is average size and says that it was "in the middle of tight and very - tight". (haha!) He very much enjoyed the tightness and material altogether. The size is okay, but he says that it was a bit too short for him. If you're bigger than normal in girth, you'll be fine with the stretchy material.

This toy is in a way easy to hide and discreet, but also isn't. Since it's inside of a plain gray 'can' with a lid, no one is going to see the vagina lips. But someone whose seen a sex toy before or is curious to open it is going to know why it is if they take the lid off. For travel, this is very suitable. The lid and the 'bottom lid' keep the toy safe and clean.

The main 'pro' of this toy, as mentioned before, is that it vibrates. The vibrations do add stimulate, but he's able to go without and still enjoy the toy. That just varies from your mood, as does vibration when a female uses a dildo or vibrator. The vibrations come from the base, so they're stronger there. You can feel it through out the whole toy, but it tapers out the further you get from the base.

One not so great thing about this toy is that the TPR part slips out 2 or 3 inches from the plastic holder when it's being used, with or without the base on or off. That's the one big con that my boyfriend didn't like. It's better to slip out a little bit than in (the plastic wouldn't feel good if it slipped inside), but he wishes it would work a little better in that area. However, this still doesn't stop him from enjoying it.

This toy is quiet noisy. As you're going to want to use lube with this toy, you get the 'slopping' sound. You wouldn't be very discreet if you were going to use this in a dorm room/a room with someone else. It's not obnoxiously loud, but enough that you'd wake someone up sleeping in the same room as you if they're a light sleeper.

This toy isn't waterproof as there isn't a way to keep the batteries safe. There is, however, a very thin ring of sponge material where the base (with the batteries) screws into the bottom of the toy. This should keep the lube away. I do suggest making sure your toy is completely dry or the ring will stay wet.

Speaking of the base, you can tighten or loosen it to change the suction. There's also a tiny hole in the end so that if it is completely tightened, you can still easily use the toy. I found out though that if there in too much lube going on, it WILL come out of the hole.

This toy is super easy to take care of. It's not very porous at all, so you can clean this easily with some antibacterial soap and water, or some toy cleaner. However, it is still a little porous and not able to be boiled, so make sure if you're sharing the toy with another male to use a condom. Or you can use a condom each time and make it even easier on yourself to clean. You can use water or silicone based lubricants with this toy. These materials are my favorite because when I'm (or he is) in the mood, you don't have to search for that one lube so that you don't ruin the toy. This is a pro for him, he's man, haha.

The TPR part comes out easily for cleaning. You can turn it inside out if needed, but as I said earlier, be careful not to tear the edges.

Afterward, make sure (once completely dry, it won't dry with the ends on) make sure you put the base and lid back on because the TPR will attract hair and lint. Make sure you take the base off when you clean it because the battery part inside isn't waterproof.

The toy is packaged in a Japanese looking box with a topless Japanese girl on the front. The toy is molded after her. The box isn't very discreet and it's not something I would use for gift giving. It seems tasteless to both of us, with too much going on. Inside the box is the toy itself, detailed instructions, a small poster of the same girl on the front and 2 others, and a sample of Astroglide (we haven't used yet). I'm a packaging girl and this could have been put together better, but the sample lube and detailed instructions were definitely a plus.

My experience: The toy is very fun to play with. When I first opened it, the first thing I did was feel the lips. They were so soft and I had to slip my fingers inside. The material was fun to play with and my boyfriend kept laughing at me because I had a lot of fun. Sexually, it was also a lot of fun to use on him. To move it the different ways and speeds how I would move myself and to see him react was fun. It's definitely a way to get closer. It's also fun to use just for foreplay. We actually used it tonight as such, but as soon as I got on him he said "this is so much better". So while it's not the real thing, it does it job until compared.

His experience: "It was great, you know. It was much better than the usual hand.. and uh. Oh and another thing, it was a bit too short."

There you have it, haha.