As a beginner to the world of sex toys, I never thought to explore the possibilities for men. Call me naive, but I figured sex toys were only for women. After browsing the endless choices, let's just say I opened Pandora's box. I decided my first purchase was going to be a male masturbator, but I had no idea where to start. So, naturally I sorted the choices by price (not yet ready to spend big bucks on a fancy one) and I came up with Red Hot Lover as the best option.


I cannot describe the level of anxiousness I felt upon opening the package when it first arrived. My first impression was that of excitement with a tad of skepticism since I truly did not know what to expect. After my first test run, I can honestly say I am not disappointed in the least with my choice. While it's overall feel and experience is no where near the real thing, it is definitely a much better alternative to the standard method. Along with a reliable water based lubricant, I can honestly say this is the most intense orgasm I have ever experienced going solo.


The only minor flaws I would point out would be cleaning the product after use and the lack of suction. It's impossible to invert the product to clean the inside and it is fairly difficult to get a good flow of water to flush it out. In regards to the suction, I have read other reviews that highlight the level of suction to increase the overall pleasure and this product definitely lacks that function. Again, both of these flaws are minor and do not take away from the overall great experience it can provide.


As I previously mentioned, Pandora's box of self-pleasure has definitely been opened and I cannot wait to explore the endless possibilities. With that said, I am not disappointed with my first choice and I will definitely continue to use it going forward.

In regards to my own personal experience, I would definitely recommend using a water based lubricant only with this product. It makes for a more pleasurable experience overall.