The Lover's Delight Nubby is marketed by Cal Exotics as a cock ring. I want to start by saying that if you are looking for something that will constrict your blood flow and make love making last longer, you will want to look at standard metal or plastic cock rings, or look into a silicone lasso. You will not achieve your desired effects here unless you have very above-average girth... upwards of 6 inches in diameter.

I would call this a love ring. It's designed to add clitoral stimulation while having sex with your partner. It was much better suited for My Mister than it was for me. He could use this during solo play with the nubbies on his testes while masturbating bare handed or with a stroker. This will probably be how we use it during intercourse as well. I could probably use it for masturbation as well, holding the ring and rubbing the nubbies over my clit.

This clear TPE ring is smooth smooth and stretchy. It is seamless, so there will be no uncomfortable moments for Your Mister (or you... if you're a Mister) with a seam rubbing up and down your shaft. The portion for clitoral stimulation is nubbed, the nubs are not seamed. It was a very nice texture for both my and My Mister. It was so smooth that with some lube it slid right on and wasn't uncomfortable in any way. There was no odor with this toy, which was also really nice.

The design of this toy would actually work quite well for thinner couples, I think. Both My Mister and I are overweight, so things just didn't land in the right strip, if you catch my meaning. Either riding Cowgirl Style or even the Missionary position, the nubbed texture could work quite well to give a woman clitoral stimulation. It also comes with a bullet that can be inserted right behind the nubbed ball that protrudes from the top that will add to the clitoral stimulation.

If the Mister has a thin shaft and/or smaller testes, you could probably stretch the ring over both shaft and testes. My Mister, however, could not. This is not adjustable but is very stretchy, so it should fit most men. With a little lube, this toy slides right on and off. If you lube up well before using, it should not pull too much hair, unless your lube got too sticky.

I think this toy is quite nice for a couple just wanting a little something extra if they're uncomfortable diving into the world of sex toys or if you're simply new to the world of sex toys.

The bullet that comes with the ring, in and of itself is not too noisy. Coupled with the ring, however, it has a rather loud buzz. The bullet is the same bullet that comes with many of Cal Exotics toys. It's thin, about 2 inches, silver, plastic, and has a push button control. This bullet was a bit stronger than the last one I received, so that was nice. It's very easy to turn on and off, but it is a little sensitive.

As with all TPE, it is porous and not meant to be shared. It's also a lint magnet. You will want to wash it before and after use. Since it is not the silicone composite, you can use both silicone and water based lubes. I would store it in a little Ziploc bag in your toy box (or drawer). Easy Peasy.

I enjoyed this in solo play and My Mister enjoyed it on him for both solo play and some straight up lovin'. I think for me to enjoy this more during intercourse, the top would have to be longer and perhaps a little thicker to hit my sweet spot. But that's just my BBW (married to a BBM) experience. More normal-sized couples (under 220 for gals... under 250 for guys) would probably have a little more fun with this.

Below are some items that look like they might work a little better for us BBWs...