It's a Fleshlight, I think almost everyone knows what and how to use it. But I was a little shocked that my girl seems to like it maybe more than I do and that's actually pretty damned hot and something I was not expecting. For best results, get it nice and hot by soaking in hot water before using. We use a cooler filled with hot water for all our toys and lubes, warm toys are so much better. Lube is pretty much mandatory unless you're using as a couple and she's creative and has natural lube to spare. Watching your girl use a double ended dildo with the fleshlight is pretty amazingly awesome. The toy itself is really soft and squishy. If you're a guy and going solo I found you can adjust the suction by screwing the end cap all the way down, pretty cool really. Cleanup is messy, there's no way around that at all. Overall, it's pretty cool and if your girl is open minded or curious it can be very fun. One other thing; this thing is not exactly inconspicuous and you'll need a good location to keep it secure. No way this thing is going in a suitcase on a plane but I would like to see the TSA's face when they unscrewed the cap to see what's inside.

It's a lot softer and more flexible than I thought it would be. It's 'rubbery soft' but not tacky like latex. It's amazing how it feels. It doesn't feel like the real thing of course, but it's pretty interesting and if you're a big guy leave the end cap off and you've got plenty of room. It's actually so soft I worry about the durability but time will tell.

It looks like a vagina. It's in a large pearl colored 'flashlight' thingy that seems to scream 'look at me'. So in no way is this thing easy to hide from curious eyes. Take this in your luggage on a plane and you'll be sure to get a little red faced when you get you TSA pickup notice.

Now as for the 'fit', I'm not a huge guy, a little bigger than 'average' and I can bottom out with is. So I do like it better without the end cap on but that decreases the suction, which is actually pretty amazing. As for girth; it is rather accommodating and can be used without the casing if needed. You can even turn it inside out for easier cleaning but I wouldn't do that too frequently.

With the end cap on there's a lot of suction and it does feel pretty damned good. It does make some noise but it's not bad at all. One of my favorite things about this toy is how my girl uses it. If you have a curious girl, she may really dig it. I can't decide if it was hotter watching her go at it with the double ended dildo or when she sucked my cum out of it while fingering it, pretty hot really and way more fun than I expected it to be.

This thing is pretty big overall and not something easy to store. The can it comes in is about the size of the cans that special edition 1L liquor bottles come in, so not something for under the mattress. Cleanup is kind of a pain in the ass. There's so many nooks and crannies inside that it's almost easier to turn it inside out to clean it. I was told recently that if you let it dry before cleaning it's easier to clean because semen 'gums up' when fresh and mixed with water. I don't know how willing I am to try the 'dry then clean' method.

It's kind of fun, but I don't think it's going to last very long or be a regular player in our lineup. It's fun for a special occasion or if you're horny and want a quicky. If you let a good friend know you have one, they want to see it and that's a little awkward.