I decided my new partner needed a sleeve, so I took him to EdenFantasys.com where he quickly requested a Fleshlight because he had seen them previously. He had viewed the star Lia19 before so he wanted that particular design, especially as the Lotus texture seems to be a hit with most people who try it. Lia19 comes in a simple cardboard box with a pamphlet on the line and a small sample of water based lubricant.

The outer casing is designed to resemble a Flashlight, this may work a little better if this particular casing was a pearl/peach color. The case does protect the sleeve though, which is a lint magnet. Lia19’s inner sleeve is peach and is molded off the actual star. The actual inner sleeve is a new texture called the Lotus, found exclusively in the Fleshlight girls line. Make sure to use enough water based lubricant before you enter Lia19. It’s a tight entrance followed by a series of bubble like chambers. Aidan is relatively endowed and the Fleshlight, though a very tight fit and close to being too short, worked adequately for him. The bottom cap can be adjusted to either increase/decrease suction.

I had warned Aidan on the difficulties of cleaning the Fleshlights, and Lia19 is no different. It’s easiest to separate the case and the sleeve prior to cleaning. Cleaning the case is easy, a bit of water and you’re set. Cleaning the sleeve can be accomplished by running mass amounts of warm water through her. If it truly is necessary, a bit of Isopropyl alcohol can be used.

Lia19 is made of Superskin, which is porous and has a realistic feeling to it. To maintain the integrity of the material, it should be thoroughly (both inside and out) dusted with cornstarch every few uses. A gallon zip lock bag and an infant suction bulb work very well to accomplish this task. Because this material is porous, you should not share the Fleshlight.

When Aidan started dating me, he had no experience with sex toys. He got through his crash course and then I felt he needed his own. The Fleshlight came in a nondescript box, and he quickly tore into it. His initial reaction was that it was much larger than expected. The size made him feel a bit better though, as he was worried about a toy that would be too small for him. He noted that men with smaller hands may not enjoy this as much because the area you grip is quite girthy.

He’s used the Fleshlight quite a few times, primarily when we’re apart. He says “well, it’s not your vagina, but it’s way better than my hand”. He wishes it were tighter overall, had a bit more suction, and he gets a bit annoyed with the rigorous cleaning, but says it’s worth it.

Overall the Lia19 was a positive experience for us both. Aidan is more interested in male sex toys, which was my goal, and he gets off and it feels better than his own hand, which was his goal.