I bought my Fleshlight Lady Original just over two years ago and I use it on a regular basis. It is a sex toy with as many benefits as draw backs, but the good most certainly out weighs the bad.

A Fleshlight is a male masturbator sleeve that has a flashlight shaped case, hence Fleshlight. The very first time I used my Fleshlight, I was still a virgin and had nothing other then my hand to compare it too. So at that time I would have given this toy a five star rating without thinking twice. And now after begin with my girlfriend so many times I would still give the Fleshlight five stars.

My initial experience with my Fleshlight left me delighted and pretty antisocial for a week or two. ;) I typically had not bothered with warming it up during those first few times I used it, but after being with a girl I soon realized the pleasure of sexual warmth. So usually I will just run hot water over it for a min or two until warm enough. I would then squirt some water based lube onto the lips of the Fleshlight and slowly work my way inside.

It feels so incredibly good, going from your hand to a Fleshlight. The feeling is constant contact, and a pressure that a hand just can't duplicate. In comparison to a real vagina it is definitely different, but not in a bad way. The difference I found is when you’re having sex with your partner you don't have to use your hands, but with the Fleshlight you do. Also, the surprise of what move your girl will do next is gone. But the physical sensation of the Fleshlight is incredible and unbeatable, with anything other then a real woman; which it so closely mimics.

I found that if I wanted it to feel as close to the real thing as possible, I had to wear a condom. I know, that is the last thing anyone would want to do, but it has its benefits. First because there is that degree of separation, it feels just like my girlfriend; no ifs ands or buts! Using a condom makes this feel like actual sex. If you blindfolded me, and used a Fleshlight on me, and then switched in my girlfriend, I wouldn't know the difference!

But the real benefit of wearing a condom is the clean up. If you wear a condom all you have to do is throw the condom away and run some tap water through the Fleshlight and it is good to go. Anyone that has ever tried sex in the shower has seen what water does to semen. The stuff gets so freaking sticky it is almost impossible to get of anything. Same thing happens to a Fleshlight if you cum in it, the cum just sticks so well it takes that much longer to clean it.

All and all an incredibly fun toy and great for a virgin that wants practice, so as to be able to perform on the first try and not blow their load too soon. I still use mine frequently although I have never tried it with my girlfriend, which maybe be an option, having someone else manipulate it could be pretty exciting. If given the chance again, I would buy it in a heart beat; but I may upgrade to the Brooke Skye version simply because that girl is so hot!

I have had this toy a long time, and nothing has changed since I wrote the review. The performance is awesome, this thing feels great and is a pleasure to use. I have tried the shoe method a few times (placing the Fleshlight in a shoe to position it for thrusting) and always quickly shifted back to manual masturbation, but that is the only thing directing affecting the Fleshlight’s performance.

As a side note my girlfriend and I decided to dedicate a drawer to our sex toys, and I put my Fleshlight in the drawer when she wasn’t around one day. She hadn’t known that I had this, and I was tired of hiding it from her. When she found it the next day she didn’t know what it was! Then I had her open the cap and boy was she surprised, haha. She thought it was funny, and is happy to see that I am enjoying myself on the days she isn’t around.