Ever had the mood killed because your guy couldn't last long enough, or you couldn't last long enough? PROBLEM SOLVED...your sex session will never be cut short again! The intended use for this Tantric Lover's gel by Relationship Enrichment Systems is to desensitize the male partner while maintaining his erection, to make him last extra long. This can be used by young couples who just want extra long sessions, for those with erectile dysfunction or without, or for those who really enjoy fore-play but don't want to finish till the real deal. While the product is advertised for males, it can be used on females as well.

The texture of this product is gel. It is smooth and not runny, but isn't too thick that it is hard to spread around. It is easy to squeeze out of the bottle. Only a little is needed. I would recommend using about a squirt the size of a small marble. The gel stays where it is put and doesn't feel sticky or greasy.

These are the ingredients:

Propylene Glycol, Glycerin, Glyceryl Polyacrylate, Water, Sodim Polyacrylate, PVM/MA Copolymer, Ethoxydiglycol, Panax Ginseng Root Extract, Serenoa Serrulata Fruit Extract, Menthol, Phenoxyethanol, Methylparaben, Butylparaben, Ethylparaben, Propylparaben

The gel is water based and is really easy to clean up.

This stuff tastes awful! There is no reason that you would want this any where near your mouth, it is probably unsafe to digest and also it would numb you there as well. It does smell nice though. it has a slightly minty smell to it that is not over powering or gross in any way. It is better than the smell of durex tingling.

This gel is really easy to use. Just squeeze out about a marble size amount and spread all over the male genitals. I suggest washing your hands after wards. Note of caution: if you are going bare-back you will have to wait 5 minutes and then wash it off. If you don't, it will transfer to your female partner and also numb her as well. When my boyfriend at the time and I used this we were cautioned of this also by another user on the site.

We always used condoms so we applied it first and then put the condom on. He didn't have a hard time lasting long enough for me to finish without foreplay ever. It was the fore play part that made the sex short. That is what we got it for. When he felt he was getting close with foreplay, I would put the gel on and then the condom. He would maintain his erection, but stay aroused and hard to finish me. Because of all the build up, his orgasms were EXTREMELY intense once they did happen. He compared it to a cock ring. Once you take the cock ring off, you fly to orgasm. Same with the gel, once it wears off you burst. He said that during the entire experience he still felt the same sexual arousal and excitement but was just unable to climax right away. It did not make sex less enjoyable for him.

The gel works really well. It doesn't take long for it to start working either. Almost immediately he said he felt a cool tingling. Before the gel, my partner (with foreplay) would last about 5 minutes sometimes. With the gel he lasted between an 1-2 hours. I would say this is a HUGE change. It worked so well that sometimes I was able to re-coop and finish again before he did. This was never possible before. It was like a magic elixir.

The gel comes in an easy to use and fairly discrete bottle. The top snaps open like a sun-tan lotion bottle. The bottle contains 2 fluid ounces of the product and will last you a long time. My partner and I had used this at least half a dozen times before we separated and the bottle barely looks like it has been used.

I mentioned in my introduction a few different uses for this. I did not try it other ways, but I believe that it could be used differently. Some women are hyper sensitive. Using this on a clit would have the same qualities if I had to guess. Also I would imagine that this could be used anally for ease in anal play or sex. This could also be used by a solo male who wants extra long masturbation sessions.

I am really bummed that this product was discontinued. I was shocked to see that. I is a great product and never let me down. I have the female arousing counter part to this which is also discontinued. They both worked great and even better when together. If you can find this for sale someplace else, I recommend getting it!