I don't know about any other women out there, but I really, really enjoy watching my man masturbate. And watching him use the Fleshlight didn't disappoint.

He loved using it too, and had this to report:

"It's definitely not identical to the real thing, but it's getting damn close. I have calloused workers hands, and regular masturbation can lead to some chafing, but that goes out the window with a well lubed-up Fleshlight. It's easy to hold and use, and after a little experimentation I was able to find the angles and thrusting speeds that worked for me, and it felt really incredible."

He certainly looked like he was enjoying himself, and we were pretty pleased with the bonus water-based lube that came with the Fleshlight, as we didn't happen to have any in the house and you need a water-based lubricant for the Superskin that the Fleshlight is composed of. Don't try to use oil or silicone based lubricants here, because they will damage the delicate materials. In fact, the delicate materials really do need a little tender love and care if you want to keep your Fleshlight in good shape for future solo pleasure sessions. It's recommended that after use, you clean it immediately in warm water and dry it out. I have found that a pat down with a clean towel does the job there. Then, rub a little cornstarch across the inner sleeve, put it back in the case and it's good to go for next time.

My man however, is a little slack on the cleaning front, so if that sounds like a little more work than you are willing to put in, perhaps an easier to clean silicone sleeve would last longer in your hands!

Not all other masturbators and sleeves are the size of the Fleshlight Lady Original though, which comes in at an 8" insertable length and is stretchy and spacious enough to accommodate the girthier men out there. So whatever you end up going with, make sure you check the insertable dimensions of the toy against your own dimensions.

"The tightness adjuster is a great feature on this toy, and really helped me control my orgasm."

Whilst my man was able to get off fast and hard with the Fleshlight, he did some experimenting on his own for this review, and reported back on the ease in which he was able to use the Fleshlight for stamina training. As a woman who likes nothing more than a long hard fuck, this made me incredibly happy to hear. If you need to train yourself to stay in the game longer, and you don't have a willing vagina to help you out, grab a Fleshlight and get to it. Your future shags will inevitably thank you for it.

I was curious to see how well the Cyberskin would stand up to use over time, and have been pleasantly surprised to find that with the proper care, it's almost as good as new. No splitting, stretching or discoloring has occurred, and my partner still makes it a regular feature of his masturbation time.

If you are worried about the price tag, know that this toy will stand the (10 month) test of time quite nicely!