Use - The idea of the the Posh Lovers Cages by California Exotics is to be worn on the penis during sex to help your man with stamina and endurance while providing the receiving partner some texture and a little more girth. They are basically elongated, textured cock rings.

The cages can obviously be used with a partner, but also, as an added treat when put on a dildo or vibrator during solo play.

The box states that the cages should not be used for more than 30 minutes at a time, and to allow 60 minute breaks in between use to allow blood to continue flowing properly.

The cages are best for vaginal use, as they tend to slip and slide. That's not something you want disappearing during anal sex. Although if used under a condom, they may work for anal sex.





Material/Texture - Made of pure silicone, these toys are rated as a 10 on the Eden Fantasy safety scale. Soft, stretchy, flexible and durable, the rings are Non-porous, phthalates free, hypo-allergenic and latex free. Latex free being an awesome quality, when you consider how many people (men and women) have an allergy to latex.

The textures vary from ring to ring. One has a swirl pattern around the shaft, the other has a beaded texture and the third a criss-cross pattern. They may look rough, but you will be surprised to find out how soft they are to the touch.





They stretch easily for getting on and off of the penis, which is an added benefit. Because of how thin they are, they are very flexible, which can be a problem at times for staying in place and insertion.

They have no taste or smell and are incredibly easy to care for.

They do have a slight tackiness to them. They make pick up hair, lint or dust easily, so be sure to clean well before each use.





Design/Size- As I mentioned before, they come in a variety of styles, with different patterns and textures. This is awesome to add a little variety to your sex life, either with a partner or your favorite vibrator, there will be at least one pattern in this kit for you. They are each 3" long, and 1-1/2" diameter, stretching up to 2-1/2" diameter. They are incredibly lightweight, at about 3/8 of an ounce each.







They come in a variety of colors: orange, pink, purple or blue, you're bound to find a color for your personality.





Care/Maintenance - The Posh Lovers Cages are incredibly easy to care for. It's important that they be cleaned well before and after each use. Since they are made of silicone, there are a few options to cleaning. Warm soap and water is always easy, they can be put in the dishwasher (top rack only), or even boiled. By boiling, they can be fully sanitized which adds the option of sharing.

Since they are silicone, it's important to only use water based lubes. Silicone base lubes may react badly with the cages.

Storage - I use a zip lock back to keep them separated from other toys in the toy chest, to ensure no bad material reactions.





Packaging - They come in a sealed cardboard box with instructions for use and care on the exterior. Inside the 3 cages are packed into a plastic bag. They are easy to get out, no hassle of trying to break any plastic seals.

Hubby and I were excited to get these as part of an assignment. There was a mix up and it took some time to get us the correct product, but once it came, we were ready to go.


Don't get me wrong, my husband is a great size, and I enjoy having him inside of me, but a little extra girth never hurt anyone. Most of my toys are the same, or girthier than he is, I guess I'm lucky he doesn't mind. But when the opportunity came for him to add a little extra girth, he was as ready as I was.

After a little foreplay and toy play, hubby put the one of the rings on and lubed it up. Before he could even get in, we found it to be moving around a bit. As he attempted to get in, the cage crumpled up, and folded like an accordion, rather then sliding into me. After a few more tries he took it off and tried one of the other designs, which did work a little better, but still not great.

I tried using them on some of my larger toys, but found them to still move around too much when lube was added.

We both loved the idea of these toys, but are really disappointed with how they actually worked. Hopefully they can develop something similar that works as intended.

These are more of a hassle than a pleasure. They do not stay in place, instead they crunch and crush down. Hubby is far from a small man, but they do not fit snuggly, which creates a lot of the trouble with them. Unless your man is hung like a horse, these will probably not work as intended. The only way hubby was able to penetrate me with these on, was with a condom over it, but we both found it to be uncomfortable. This is a great idea, but unfortunately not designed well.