I've been trying to find a toy for my husband for quite a while now. I wanted him to have a little something extra for his "alone" time. Well since he loves anal sex and Fleshlight makes some of the best masturbators out there, I decided the Fleshlight Jack Ass would be the perfect gift for him. I must add that this is his first masturbator ever.

The Fleshlights come disguised in what is supposed to look like a flashlight. But even though this is really a creative idea, standing at 10 inches tall with a 12 inch circumference at its base, it is probably one of the biggest flashlights I've ever seen. Though I think if you had it sitting on a shelf, closed, no one would question it. The outer casing is made of black plastic and has a cap on each end. The smaller end cap can be tightened or loosened depending on how much suction you want to get out of this masturbator. The more you tighten it, the stronger the intensity of the suction.

When it first came I opened it immediately. The Jack Ass sleeve looks like a puckered up tight little ass. It is made out the infamous Superskin material, which is pretty hard to describe, but I'll try. It is very soft and squishy and similar to, but almost softer than, butt cheek skin. The sleeve can also be warmed by running it under hot water just before using it to give it a more realistic feel. And of course I had to sink a couple of fingers inside as well, and it is pretty darn tight in there. But of course I only did this because I want only the best for my husband.

Our first attempt at using this wasn't a complete success, but he did enjoy it. The first time I tried using it on him and we did have fun, he really liked how it felt but he never made it to the finish line.

A couple of nights later he tried it by himself. He said it took him a bit because he kept trying to use it by holding it in his hand. Which has never been his style of masturbation. So finally he figured out a way to wedge it into the couch and use it hands free...and voila! Success!!!!

Later when I asked him what he thought of it he said, he really liked it and will definitely use it again. But no, it doesn't feel exactly like a woman, and that the only drawback to it is that it needs muscles that grab and react like a real woman's ass does. Otherwise it's practically perfect."

Fleshlight says that you should only use water based lubricants with these because oil or silicone may deteriorate the Superskin sleeve.

Cleaning is very easy with this toy. Just remove the sleeve from the case and run warm water through it. You can either towel dry or just let it air dry before putting it back into the case. They do not recommend using any type of soap because it may ruin the sleeve. But they do suggest that if it really needs it, a small amount of isopropyl alcohol can be used. Also if you choose, re-powdering can restore the sleeve to it's original silky feel. Fleshlight recommends if you do this to use corn starch.

I'm really glad I was able to find a toy for my husband to enhance his "alone" time. And I'm kind of glad that this toy isn't "exactly" like making love to me, that just means I'm not replaceable.

My husband still really likes this. It's holding up well, except it was getting a bit tacky at the top. Fleshlight recommends using cornstarch if this happens, and that did a great job of fixing that problem. So now every once in a while after it's been cleaned and air-dried, I just give it a little dusting and it's good as new.