I bought my Lady Fleshlight about two years ago and still use it to this day. It is a great male masturbator and goes above and beyond any others I have seen.


The sleeve is made of a material called "Real Feel Superskin" that is not a latex or silicone. I wouldn't go as far to say it feels exactly like skin, but that has not deterred me from this product. The sleeve fits into a hard plastic container that is around a foot long and roughly 4 inches in diameter at the top. It is not that discreet, but you can easily store it in a drawer or closet. I keep mine in the metal container in which it was shipped.


As far as performance goes, I feel it is that closest thing to having sex with a real woman. You can never duplicate the actual feel of the female vaginal canal, but I feel this comes pretty close. The fleshlight came with a trial size lube, and you can purchase more from the Fleshlight company. However, once I ran out (in about three uses), I just used a K-Y water-based lubricant. There is a cap on the bottom of the plastic container that you can adjust. What this does is allow for different levels of suction as you pump/thrust into the sleeve. Another neat thing I learned while using the Fleshlight is that when I did not want to have to pump it in my hand, I could easily place it in between my sofa cushions and thrust into it to get off. This made masturbating more exciting and had more of a feel like I was having sex. However, if you cannot be that creative in your place, Fleshlight does sell Liberator-style cushions in which you can place your Fleshlight device, but I sort of thought they were pricey, and I could be more creative without the cost.


Clean up is a bit of a hassle for me because I don't want to have to clean it up every time I orgasm into it. However, all you really have to do is remove the sleeve from the plastic container and run warm water through it to remove any lube and discharge that is inside the device. One thing I should add is that after a while I found that the sleeve would become a bit sticky, so to help dry out the "Real Feel Superskin," I would put cornstarch on it.

Overall, this is the best male masturbator out there. I chose the Lady, but I don't think you can go wrong with any Fleshlight, so go out and buy yours today. You will never regret it.

After using the Fleshlight for a while, I began to date a girl. She did not like that I had this device, but after a few months, she warmed up to it. One night, she wanted to use it on me. This is where I will say that not only is this great for solo fun, but it is also great for couples. She was on her period and did not want to have sex, so she put some lube on me and the sleeve and began to pump. It was an exciting feeling, but that wasn't it. She put it in between her legs and acted like I was actually having sex with her. I never thought I'd be turned on by that, but it was so good.