So after a long time deciding if I wanted to really part with my money for this so-called number one selling male sex toy I clicked purchase.

Two weeks later and after travelling half way around the world, it arrives in little old New Zealand. After getting some quiet time alone, I removed it from the packaging and read the instructions about how to get the best from this toy.

After lubing it up, I went to work and quickly found out why this is the number one toy for men!

It has to be the closet toy I have found that gives you that feeling as you slide into it. Once inside the little bumps rub over the head of my cock providing constant stimulation to a very quick orgasm!

It was so easy to use and felt oh so good, almost like the real thing, as they claim! I can go as fast or as slow depending on how long I want the feeling to last and it can be held in either hand or even sandwiched between a couple of pillows for a hands free style!

Once I introduced my wife to the fleshlight and showed her what it was about, she has found it to be an awesome extra for our sex life, especially when she doesn't want penetration.

The texture is super smooth at first and very soft. As they say, it is just like actual skin texture.

There was very little smell when I first opened it and the only smell the toy has now, is if it hasn't dried out fully before being stored away.

I have noticed, after using it a bit over a year, that the internal texture of the toy has started to crack or open up a little and has become very tacky.

To stop it becoming tacky, fleshlight recommends coating it in corn flour lightly and this does work, but needs to be done after each cleaning or it returns to its tacky feeling again.

Well, the shape of the fleshlight is the identical shape of a large flashlight, which is great if you’re like me and happen to leave it sitting out to dry or just left it sitting out beside the bed. No one (unless they have one) will even notice it is a sex toy.

The shape also makes it perfect to grip onto while thrusting it up and down on your cock!

The actual design of the inner skin texture and vagina is just like what you see in pictures and the internals can be changed depending on what you order, I chose speed bump and it has small little bumps that run the length of the inner vagina.

It’s not too tight, yet it happily wraps around, and it felt like it was fitted perfectly just for me.

Oh so easy to use! Lube and slide yourself in. Go as fast or as slow as you want. You harness the power to your orgasm!

The easiest place is the bed but my favourite has to be the shower as it's warm slippery and easy to clean the toy after you have finished.

This is the downfall of this otherwise perfect male sex toy.

Once you have finished, you have left your fluid inside and it needs to be cleaned out. To do this requires flushing the sleeve with warm water and then leaving it to dry.

That is the easy part. For drying, I have tried several different methods (towel, paper towels, air drying, and hair drier). The best drying method I have found was paper towels and then leaving it to air dry, since normal towels left lint all over the sleeve.

As for lint, it’s a magnet for anything once the sleeve becomes sticky with age, and I mean everything. Coating the sleeve with corn flour is the only way to stop this from happening.

If you don't let the sleeve dry completely before storing, you may find it gets a slight smell, this can be removed by cleaning it again and re-drying.

Ordering from the states was easy and shipping to New Zealand was pretty quick. It arrived in a completely discrete small brown box that gave nothing away as to what it was.

Once I opened the brown box, inside was another box which had the name and type of fleshlight I had purchased. Opening this box, I found the outer shell and the sleeve in its own packet with a hard rod down the inside of it to hold its shape during storage. MAKE SURE YOU REMOVE THIS BEFORE USE, it could hurt otherwise!

The instructions are pretty brief, mainly about cleaning, but come on if you brought this product you already should have an idea of how to use it and what it is for.

Deciding to buy my first masturbation sleeve took a while, and I'm pleased I did my research. I'm pretty sure I made an excellent choice and love every time that I take it out to lube it up and slide inside.

The bumps inside send me to the edge so quickly with quick thrusts or I can savor the feeling by keeping it slow!

The overall experience has been positive and a well-enjoyed one at that.

I love using it alone or with my partner to really get things moving along. I can sit there teasing her by thrusting myself in and out of the fleshlight, while she slides a toy in and out of her. We both tease each other until we can’t handle it anymore!