Though the Cock Commander's name seems to convey a commanding sense of authority and dominance, the truth may be far from it. As my partner and I began to use the Cock Commander, we often found ourselves constantly having to adjust as the bulk of the Cock Commander was constantly swaying around, making it more of a chore than a sensual experience to use it. We often found ourselves having to stop and start again because of this.

The material of the Cock Commander made it very difficult to constantly run up and down her pussy. Though it felt great to her when it finally did hit her clit, it was often more by luck than by the engineering of the toy. In addition, this toy can hurt your partner if a generous amount of lube is not applied to it before it begins to rub her pussy. As far as the overall material of the Cock Commander goes, I'd like to note that we were often concerned that it would break. The rings are very thin and could easily be broken. Even if you don't strap the toy on your penis, the vibrator makes it worthwhile. My partner was absolutely enthralled by the sheer force of the vibrator and it's intense, rhythmic motions. However, I will say that the first couple times we used just the vibrator it was very intense -- consider using it inside the Cock Commander itself to absorb some of the shock. Remember, before even considering using this toy, I strongly recommend buying a good lube to coat the entire object.

Overall, I'd say the toy achieves some personal needs, but not in the way that they were probably intended for. If you insist on strapping the vibrator to your penis, maintaining short, quick thrusts is the best way to avoid the toy from slipping away. The usefulness of the Cock Commander may ultimately lay in its application as an intense vibrator, but not much more.