Ok. This is a cock ring made for women, and it’s a lot of fun too. My husband said, “This is a toy that could save a lot of marriages!” Men and women’s anatomy is not designed for both partners to reach orgasm at the same time. The Bongo Ring|Bongo cock ring can change that most of the time! The concept is pretty simple; mild vibrations that reach a woman’s clit with every thrust the man makes.

The cock ring is made of stretchy gel, has sensation nubs, a dangling gold ball and the key element; the small vibrator. When properly positioned the vibrator rests on top of a man’s cock. It is turned on/off with a small button. The vibrations travel through the gel. When I hold the cock ring in my hand the stimulation is mild, but pressed between two bodies there is a strong desire for nothing but more of it! Women; you’ll want to crawl up on your man. The dangling gold ball? It’s pretty much a decoration when it comes right down to it. My husband says he never noticed it.

We’ve played with this several times, and it’s earned a place of quick and easy access right next to the bed. It’s just worth it. The first time my husband climaxed first, but I came right afterwards. Unfortunately for him, I decided that “rest” was not an option. I yelled, “Get it off me. Now!” The next time, I enjoyed my orgasm first and did the same thing with slightly more emphasis. “Take it the f*** off, right now!” He was less amused that he had to stop for a moment. Something similar happened the third time as well. So that is one of the “risks” of this cock ring; possible interruptions depending on timing.

It is a gel based sex toy, and my husband has mentioned that it sometimes is awkward to slide on his cock without it catching a bit. It works ok without any form of lube, but definitely is a bit smoother with some. There was one night that it was initially put on backwards. This was the only night that we’ve ever had trouble with it, so perhaps it was just the night or initially putting it on backwards, but in the end it didn’t work as well this night. It kept catching on my skin and there was never magic even after switching it to its normal position.

I love this cock ring! I’m not sure how long it will hold up, but it’s great fun now.

We moved onto other cock rings. As I mentioned in my original review, the little gold ball did nothing for either of us. The clit stimulation worked--most of the time (alignment issues sometimes). When it worked, it was fantastic, but my husband really wasn't fond of my coming, then telling him to get it off in the middle of fucking. Without the clit stimulation, it was nothing. I'm not even sure where it is anymore, but we got this toy a long time ago now.