I bought this toy for my husband about a month ago, and we were busy getting ready for a 2 week vacation. I thought since we would probably both be exhausted from the stress of getting ready, this might be a nice release for him one of those nights when I stayed up too late getting things ready.

When I told him I ordered it, he rolled his eyes and told me he wasn't into banging cups. I told him that Tenga as a whole gets awesome reviews and to just try it. So he agreed.

He picked it up from the post office about a week later, and then called me a little while later to tell me it sucked (in the "doesn't-work-great" way) and he couldn't climax with it. So, I asked him to tell me what he didn't like about it.

It was red and white as described, which is irrelevant. The exterior case of the toy is hard red plastic. The overall outside length was 7" and the diameter of the case was 3-1/4". It is sort of awkward to hold. Really he has an aversion to sex toys that resemble cups. The Fleshlight didn't go over well either, for the same reason. The texture inside the Deep Throat was weird to him and he said it uncomfortably rubbed him wrong at the head. I touched it to see what it felt like, and it was squishy, foamy, slimy, and sponge-like. It made me squirm. It is listed as a food grade, hypoallergenic, latex and phthalates free product, but I don't know exactly what it is. It came pre-lubed so there was no conflict with the toy and the lube. It did not need to be cleaned before use, as they are shipped from the manufacturer ready to go. He used it in solo play not in conjunction with anything else.

He used it in the shower, alone. I'm wondering if he was lying down and relaxed with me stroking him with it, if it would have made a difference in his opinion of the product. The toy is absolutely not reusable as some other reviewer suggested, so without ordering another one, we won't ever know. I'm really disappointed though; I had high hopes that his first Tenga experience would be a good one.