I was very reluctant to try any sort of male toy before this. I figured I had my hand, so I didn’t really need anything else. However, my girlfriend bought me this as a surprise gift before she left for study abroad. I had heard of fleshlights before and all the hype surrounding them, so I decided I would at least give it a try.

It took me a lot of playing around at first to figure out what really worked for me. I’ve found that changing the amount of lubricant I used really changed the sensation, as did warming the toy. You’re going to want to attempt to use it a few different ways in order to find what really works for you. I’ve also noticed that if you loosen the back cap a bit, it decreases the amount of suction and vice versa. For me, that was the factor that really affected my orgasm.

There are a bunch of different ways to use the fleshlight, from putting it between cushions or pillows to holding it with your hand. It’s pretty easy to prop it up different places for different experiences.

The material is really awesome. It feels as close to the real thing as possible. It's hard to believe until you try it for yourself, but it's true. The hole is very tight, almost like you're popping a cherry but without the mess. The toy overall is very accommodating, even for a guy like myself who is a bit larger than average. The only downside to the fleshlight is the amount of cleaning it requires. After every use you have to remove the inner part and wash it out then let it completely dry. It also helps if you store it in a bag full of corn starch, so you'll want to pick some up at the store when your order your fleshlight. If you don't clean it out often enough, it starts to get a funky smell.

All in all, it's pretty worth the time it takes to clean it. I highly recommend the fleshlight.