It can be a little difficult to bring me to orgasm during PIV sex, so I thought this would be the perfect toy to introduce into my sex life. I had read some mixed reviews, but really hoped this would work for me.

The We Vibe 3 comes in a stylish oval box and arrives in the storage container/charger. The container is perfect because it allows me to leave the toy out on my bed stand charging without anyone realizing what it is. This could easily be mistaken for a room scent sprayer. The storage container is perfect because not only does it charge the toy without having to plug anything directly into it, but it also keeps lint away and keeps your toy clean.

I was super eager to try out this toy when it arrived, and luckily a special friend of mine was visiting for the weekend. I quickly cleaned it off and slipped it in. At first, it didn't seem like the clitoral stimulator would hit in the right spot. The thin, bottom of the U portion seemed a little too big and caused the clitoral stimulator to not sit directly on top. However, after penile insertion, this pushed the internal part further in which helped. That, coupled with finding the right position to apply just the right pressure, led to an amazing experience. Be careful though, I found that if he put too much weight on me while he was on top it could push too hard into my pubic bone and hurt. My personal internal anatomy made it a little difficult to keep the we vibe in place. It would occasionally want to slip to one side or the other, and I would have to reach down and adjust it. I would say that although this fumbling around was a little awkward, the pleasure associated with this toy was worth it. We tried this toy in missionary and girl-on-top positions. Both felt great, but I found being on top was easier to control to position and amount of pressure to my liking.

The remote control was definitely nice, but if our bodies were too close together, the signal would get blocked, and I would have to wedge my hand with the remote between us to switch modes.

I liked to start off with the first, lighter constant mode. After a little warming up I enjoyed either mode #2 - a stronger constant vibration, or the wave/rollercoaster-like vibration the best. Some of the pulsating modes seemed a bit too distracting for both of us.

One of the biggest issues with this product was that my partner enjoyed it too, almost a little too much. As I said before, I have difficulty reaching orgasm through PIV sex, so this toy seemed perfect to get me to orgasm during sex. However, my partner who can usually go forever also found the sensations amazing and ended up getting off much faster than usual.

Since these first couple experiences, I've also found the the We Vibe 3 is also great with solo play. During solo play I like to reverse the toy and have the larger portion inside. Rocking back and forth with this inside feels amazing.

This toy has become a regular in my sex life. We both absolutely love it. The only downside that I see is when the vibrations are just a little too enjoyable for him, causing my usually "well enduranced" man to end things sooner than expected. Regardless, I love, love, love the We-Vibe 3.