When I first saw this toy, I knew I just had to have it. It seemed like it would be the perfect couple's toy.

When I got it, I was impressed by the look and feel of the toy. It's small and discreet and the look is curvy and kind of sexy. The packaging was nice and worthy of a toy that you dropped a lot of money on. Charging it and getting it set up was a little confusing at first, but after figuring out where the charge port was, I've had no problems.

The first time I used this I did something silly. I didn't use enough lube. Basically what happened is that we used it during sex and the upper part (that rests on your clit) vibrated the whole time with no lubrication. The result? A fun trip to the doctor because I had brush burn on my vagina. How embarrassing. I tell you this so that you won't be goofy like me and fail to lubricate BOTH sides of this when using this.

After that horrific experience, I was tempted to throw this away and call it a bust because I was terrified to use it again. But, in the name of always trying something at least a few times before calling it quits, I decided to give it another go.

Thing is, the We Vibe is pretty weak. The vibrations, while quiet, are sub-par. Basically if I used this by itself with no other toy or my husband involved, I would not be able to get there. During intercourse it spiced things up a little bit, but doesn't serve its intended purpose. I get basically no clitoral stimulation from it and the internal vibrations don't feel spectacular and certainly don't seem to help hit my G spot any better.

It's not a total fail. We still do use it sometimes. I guess my problem is that with the right vibrations, this could be the most amazing toy out there. A problem we run into often is that when you're in the moment it's not the easiest thing to manage having sex, orgasming, and holding a vibrator in just the right spot. I was hoping this would make clitoral stimulation during sex a hands free affair. A bit more oomph and this toy would have exceeded my expectations. It sadly missed the mark a little bit.

Most of the time when we use this now, I end up getting frustrated by it and taking it out and using one of my stronger vibrators and just dealing with the issues that come with maneuvering a few different things at once. I'm a pretty awful multi-tasker.

I would recommend this to couples who are just starting out with sex toys especially if the girl doesn't need a ton of vibration. I can see how this would work for someone who needs less stimulation than what I do. The design is nice and the concept it very smart. I also think this is a nice transition into bringing toys in the bedroom because it doesn't have that intimidation factor that some stronger or larger vibes might have.

The We Vibe is super easy to clean and I find it doesn't even get all that messy, which I guess has something to do with where it positions itself.

Final word: great for beginners. Nice addition, but not a necessity for seasoned pros. Make sure to lubricate both ends! If they come out with a We Vibe III that's a lot stronger, I'm sold.