When I first spied this new arousal gel I was skeptical to say the least. I'd heard plenty about taking L-arginine supplements to increase blood flow to the clitoris but hadn't found a decent name brand topical product to do the same. I decided to give Utopia a try.

When first applied, it's a tingling, light gel. It's silky and slippery, but the tingling isn't "menthol"-ish. This isn't like the tingling lubes that feel like Bengay on your pussy. It's a light, feathery tingle that I found quite pleasurable. The tingle slowly melts into an almost warming sensation that makes me purr.

I don't know the scientific proof of this gel increasing blood flow to the clit, but it made mine plenty happy. Even the slightest increase in pressure on my clit felt ten times stronger. It's an amazing side effect. With a product like this, it's hard to keep it located to just the slit. For me it always turns into a half-assed lube application. No irritation developed from doing this, and the tingle still stays minimal even while in the vagina during penetration. My partner hasn't commented on feeling any sort of weird sensations whatsoever when we do this.

The sensations last, on me, anywhere from 15-25 minutes. Use at least 2 pumps' worth of product and massage it, however gently you prefer, directly onto your clit. Within seconds you'll feel the slight tingle. The tingle may be completely undesirable to some, and in that case, sorry you bought this product. For less tingle but in the same price range, try KY Intense.

Using too much of this product during a round of sex may leave your clit a little more sensitive than you'd like. Found this out the hard way after vigorously reapplying up to 5 times during a session. When it happens just, wet a soft washcloth with warm water and, gently wipe where you applied the gel. It comes right off, no hassles whatsoever.

This tingly enhancement gel's effects apparently fade over time. I tried a bit the other day and it lost the tingly feeling I used to enjoy. It was incredibly sticky, almost tacky and the pump seemed to be half-clogged. I won't be buying this again.