The butterfly kiss is a great toy for beginners as well as those who've been around the block.

When I first got this toy in the mail, I opened it and immediately notice a odd plastic smell which dissipated with a few washings. The jelly material feels nice and slicks up with a bit of lube just fine. This toy should be stored in an anti-static toy bag of some kind. It does tend to pick up small particles that can be hard to pick off. Washing the toy before each use is probably best.

The shaft of the butterfly kiss is not at all stiff, but the vibrations are easily transmitted to the bulb without a problem. The clitoral stimulator is nicely shaped with somewhat stiff wings that tend to hug my clit, antennas that tickle and tap my hood and ridges on the body of the butterfly add wonderful sensations when the power is turned up. There are three power settings that can be adjusted via a push button on the underside of the base. The highest setting is very intense and very loud but I LOVE it! When in the next room, it sounds like someone is using an electric razor or an electric toothbrush (or I guess a loud vibrator).

My favorite part of this toy has to be the push button speed adjuster. Because it has a hand-held base with a push-button speed adjustment you don't have to worry about accidentally changing the speed at the moment of climax. I LOVE the power this little toy has; it is loud but it gets the job done when I am in a rush. I wish it had a 1/2 inch more girth and length in the shaft though.

I especially like to use this toy while having sex with my husband at the same time. I like the control it allows me when he is doing me doggy style. The clit stimulation is fantastic while his cock presses the bulb of the toy against my g-spot with a lot of pressure. HOWEVER...he wishes the bulb was flat on the underside (where his cock rubs against it) or that the shaft was a bit longer (1-2 inches) because it hits him in an uncomfortable spot especially when I crank up the speed. After 20 mins or so of couple play, I really wish the shaft was a bit longer too; the bulb just hits my g-spot wrong I guess, because sometimes I am left with an achy g-spot. However, we usually do not have a problem with it getting us both off pretty quickly.

After a six months or so of use, the batteries finally died and subsequent batteries seem to not last long at all. So, I am purchasing a second Butterfly Kiss and retiring the original one due to the fact the antennas are beginning to fall off and the jelly material is deteriorating around the wings and the shaft. This time though I think I might try the waterproof one instead. You can't beat the price that is for sure!

I especially like to use this toy while having sex with my husband at the same time. The clit stimulation is fantastic while his cock presses the bulb of the toy against my g-spot with a lot of pressure. HOWEVER...he wishes the bulb was flat on the underside (where his cock rubs against it) or that the shaft was a bit longer (1-2 inches) because it hits him in an uncomfortable spot especially when I crank up the speed. After 20 mins or so of couple play, I really wish the shaft was a bit longer too; the bulb just hits my g-spot wrong I guess, because sometimes I am left with an achy g-spot. However, we usually do not have a problem with it getting us both off.