Once you figure out how to turn on Secret affair, it's a great toy! So far, I've used it twice and love it. It's small and would be easy to travel with. It's also waterproof and pretty quiet.
This arrived in a discreet brown box in the mail. Inside Secret Affair was in a greenish colored box with some information on it. Once I opened it up, there was more information on the box, and when I pulled Secret affair out, the magnetic USB charging cord was inside along with some paper instructions. My first initial impression was Secret affair was a little bigger than I thought, which was completely fine! It just wasn't as slim as the lipstick vibes I've seen, and this kind of reminded me of those. It's definitely a smaller toy though, and would be very travel-friendly!
The plastic part of the toy was extremely smooth and didn't have any cheap feeling to it. The lid had a very nice rose gold color to it that I really liked. The lid slides off extremely smooth too, I was even worried it'd just fall off, so I tested it out by turning it upside down and giving it a few shakes, and it didn't budge. The silicone part also felt amazingly smooth and velvety, so I was extremely excited about that. All in all, I couldn't wait to try this out.
So before using this, I put Secret affair on the charger. It took about 30 minutes to charge for the first time, and once it finished the light on it stopped flashing and stayed lit up. I was slightly confused on how to turn it on as there are no visual buttons. So apparently After submitting a support ticket and thinking this was broken, it ended up being that I didn't realize you need to twist the silicone part first. Then the light on it will turn on, once the light turns on you tap it and you can go through all the vibrations. There are a total of 16 vibrations, and in order to turn this back off completely, you need to turn the silicone part again.
Magnetic charging station
So my first use with this was right after I realized it wasn't broken. ( due to another reviewer informing me) And so I was extremely excited and washed this with soap and water. I turned it on a high continuous vibration and used it with another toy. It felt absolutely amazing on my clit. The silicone felt super smooth, and I didn't need to add any lubricant. If you decide to add lube, only use a water-based lubricant, since this is silicone. I did have an orgasm my first use!
So far I've only used this twice, the second time I used this was just as amazing. I started out with teasing my body with it. I used it on my nipples on a low vibration, which was great. I then wanted to see if I could have an orgasm using this with no other toys. So after being really turned on, I began to rub my clit with it on the highest continuous vibration. I had an orgasm within minutes of doing this. Secret affair is a lot stronger than I thought it'd be for such a small toy!
Secret affair is made of silicone and plastic. This toy is hypoallergenic and non-porous, so it doesn't harbor any bacteria. It's latex and phthalates free too. This is also waterproof and is able to be submersible for up to 30 minutes. I just use soap and water to clean it, but you can use a toy cleaner if you prefer. The total length is 5 1/2".
I've only used this twice so far as I initially wrote that this was broken and then was told how to actually turn it on.
My orgasms I did end up having were wonderful! I can't wait to use this more and also try it with my husband. I think the size of this toy would be perfect to use during intercourse.
Follow-up commentaryI still like it5 months after original review
This toy is still one I reach for, either for clit stimulation while I use a dildo or during intercourse. I love that it's small and easy to just grab and use. It's sitting on my nightstand for now!
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Oh no! I'm sorry to hear you had issues with this one. I really loved my Secret Affair. I also had some confusion turning on the toy at first. You need to twist it. HAve you tried that?
frisky069
You know, I never even got that by looking at the manual, it was so confusing to me and even contacting the support people and them telling me how to turn it on, never even mentioned twisting it.
All I have to say is thank you so much! It works!! No idea if I can get a redo on the review or not!
aznbbgirl
Lol yeah step 1 has these arrows going in a circle and I interpreted that as a twisting motion. I've not had a toy that turned on by twisting either so it was new to me and not something I would initially think of on my own had I not studied the instructions.
frisky069
Yeah, for some reason that did not click for my husband and I! We both looked at it and after about 20 minutes of trying I submitted a support ticket asking if there was a certain way to turn it on. They never mentioned the twist either lol.
I have around 100 toys now and I agree with you, not q single one turns on by twisting! This toy definitely stumped me!
aznbbgirl
Yeah, to be honest we both got lucky for figuring it out, evenutally. So glad you can enjoy it too now!
All I have to say is thank you so much! It works!! No idea if I can get a redo on the review or not!
I have around 100 toys now and I agree with you, not q single one turns on by twisting! This toy definitely stumped me!