I was a bit hesitent to buy this toy because it comes with such a high price tag. This is the second Lelo product I have (the first being the Luna Beads) and I absolutely LOVE it so far. There is a nice amount of variation in the pulses, speeds, and patterns of the vibrations. You can control the intensity of the vibrations as well. Using the remote control is easy, but for solo play I think it's easier not to use the motion part of it. I still like having the remote even for solo play though as it allows you to change the setting without having to stop what you're doing to reach into your pants and find the control button; plus I don't think there's a way to control the intensity through the vibe itself, just the patterns.

To use the remote, press and hold (for 3 seconds approximately) the button on the vibe itself to turn it on (this puts it in standby so it's ready to accept remote input), then press and hold (for 3 seconds approximately)the center button on the remote. To turn, stop the remote itself from vibrating you need to hold the center button in again for about 3 more seconds. To change the intensity of the vibrations use the +/- buttons on the remote (the lower the intensity the lower the sound). Press the center button again WITHOUT holding it in to change the patterns.

When the remote is set to not vibrate there is a tiny very dim readish light that blinks to indicate the pattern setting that is being sent to the vibe. The vibe itself also has a corresponding flashing light, but this is most definitely not noticable through clothing. I am highly confident that this vibe could be used in public, especially on the lower intensity levels. I do not believe that any of the levels are honestly loud, but like I said the lower the intensity, the lower the vibrational noise is. Some of the settings are so low I can barely hear them even sitting alone in a completely silent room.

I have been using vibrators for nearly 10 years now and this is by far the best I've ever had and gave me the best orgasm I've ever gotten from a toy. I still haven't had the chance to test it out with my husband, or to use it in public, but you can be sure once I do I'll post a follow up and let you know how it goes.

It appears as though Lelo has discontinued this product, which I think is a shame. This is an absolutely amazing product, and I would gladly purchase a second one (just incase this one gets misplaced, or is charging).

So, I finally got to try this with my husband. I used the band with the indent in it, and it was great for foreplay. He was able to tease me with it and get me off when he wanted to. We tried using it while making love in the missionary position and it was okay, though I think I prefer not having it between us during sex. I think it would be great for spooning positions or if the woman is facing the bed with the guy on top. I also think it would be great for couples in which the woman has a hard time having an orgasm during sexual intercourse, as it does put a good deal of vibration on the clit which is bound to help her get there.