I have recently purchased a set of the ben wa balls I was anxious wondering if I could wear them all day long. So I got up one morning recently and inserted them, I went a full 4 hours, before I felt like they might fall out, yikes, can you imagine that happening! Thankfully they didn't! I readjusted and continued my day with them in. Now keep in mind these do not come with the string and are weighted so for a beginner may be a little troublesome. All in all this type is the kind you want to work the muscle and give yourself a true kegel workout.

By bedtime / playtime I figured I'd better take them out. But I thought I would see if they increased pleasure during foreplay, but I did not tell hubby I had them in. I kept expecting him to say what in the world am I feeling in there? But surprisingly he did not even notice them. So I decided to see how far we would go before he realized something was different, he never knew they were inside me. The experience was pleasurable for both of us, he commented on how hard he orgasmed. That's when I confessed, he was shocked to say the least that I had them in and he didn't even notice!

In my opinion I did a good job of holding the balls inside myself all day long, at least I think I did. I really had only expected to keep them in a little while but nce inserted, you can’t feel them at all inside, I had kinda for gotten about them. I had read that some feel aroused when wearing them. I really didn’t notice anything different. Well that was until my husband and I had sex.