These silicone versions of ben-wa balls are a fun way to be naughty by yourself or with your partner, yet are completely discreet should you go out and about with the balls in use. They don't rub together and cause the arousal that many fantasy stories describe, but you definitely know that they're "in there". Added bonus - you can do your kegels while shopping for groceries, and then come home and tell your lover what you've been up to.

These balls are definitely more of a stimulant product than one designed to help a lady achieve orgasm, but they make for delightful foreplay to the foreplay. I enjoy surprising my partner with the knowledge that I've been wandering around with these inside me while in public. However, if your partner (or dildo) has any girth, you're not going to want to use these balls in conjunction with penetration, as it causes an uncomfortable sensation for both.

The silicone is easy - very easy - to clean with warm water and soap, although you'll want to let it dry by the sink to avoid getting lint on it. Nobody wants lint stuck up in their lady parts! They can easily be stored in a drawer or storage bin with other toys without causing damage. A word of caution - silicone lube is not safe for these balls. Another great bonus is the retrieval loop - it definitely takes the stress out of removing the balls when they're no longer welcome without any unpleasant digging.

As my partner and I have moved to more advanced toys - we're especially fans of vibration - we tend to leave these balls in the drawer for partner play. However, like I said before, they're great for going out in public if you're going to running errands, walking around the mall, furniture store or buying groceries, or maybe just cleaning house. They don't fall out, so you don't have to worry about any embarrassing 'fall out'.

Overall, I would definitely recommend purchasing these if you're looking for something discreet to wear in public, or are wanting to start using some toys with your partner. They're not as intimidating as some of the other toys for more advanced partners, but are a great way to add some variety for beginners.