I ordered this toy as a way to introduce my husband to mutual toy play. The non-threatening shape (i.e. not a giant phallus, bizarre unicorn, or laughing dolphin) and its ease of use and function made it a promising candidate for our first joint vibrator. I was also impressed by the previous reviews and because it was a silicone toy with some really innovative features.

The We-vibe has a solid silicone body with a recharging port and control button that is basically sealed inside the vibe, making it water proof and very resilient. The charger accesses the toy through a tiny dimple in the tip that seals itself when the plug is removed. The multiple speeds and vibrations also made the versatility of this vibe very attractive and good for all types of couples.

I had seen in various reviews that certain people had difficulty with placement and fit. We did not find this to be true. In fact its movement during intercourse intensified the sensations. The shaping and flexibility of the toy let it move and mold to the body so it touches all of the right spots. The vibrations are also intense enough that you can feel them throughout the entire area even without having them directly in contact with your pleasure spots.

In terms of insertion and use, I would recommend a good silicone safe lubricant for ease of penetration. The silicone vibe can be a bit sticky and everything gets a lot tighter when it is introduced into the space, so the more liquid involved the better. Also, it should be thoroughly washed and dried after every use to prolong its usage life. We have had ours for over a year and with regular use it still keeps us going. The only caution I would present is that when everything is lubed up for play the button gets harder to push when changing the setting. Often times my husband an I pick a setting we find stimulating and then lube up.

Another feature I am really thrilled with is that although it has been fabulous to share during penetration, it is also very effective as a masturbation aid. I find that strictly as a vibrator or paired with a dildo during penetration it works better than many of my other toys designed for masturbation. I really like to hold both ends against my clitoris on the cha cha setting and just let the vibe do the work. Or sometimes I replicate intercourse with the vibe and a dildo to extend my solo pleasure.

As for my husband, the We-vibe has opened the door to all sorts of new bedroom toys and adventures and this has added a whole new dimension to our 11 year relationship. Any vibrator that can bring back that spark gets a full five stars from this girl.

My husband and I have been together for over a decade and while we still have a passionate love life, gone are the days where we are doing it in the front seat with our boots still on. A lot of the impulsive, hot and fast sex has ended and has been replaced with some wonderful and loving, slow intimacy. But sometimes that does not always get both of us or either of us to the finish line. So, we embarked on a mission to bring some of that youthful intensity back into our sex life and the We-vibe II was our first and very successful attempt. Because it could be used hands free during intercourse, it was an easy sell to my spouse who had never used any type of vibrator on himself before. In fact, he was very intimidated that the vibrations would be way too overwhelming for his equipment. But this toy, with its innocuous shape and mutual use, seemed non-threatening enough that I could get him to give it a try. He was instantly hooked, and we now use it about once a week in addition to a number of other toys. In truth, it's the best sex I've ever had and has opened our relationship up to whole new avenues of intimacy.