Ben wa balls are designed with two purposes in mind: for one, strengthening your kegel muscles, and for two, adding sexual stimulation to your every day eventually leading to an orgasm. The balls themselves even come with a cute story describing their foundation in history and their birth and origins. The balls are to be inserted in your vagina behind your g-spot and are suppose to bang into one another which is suppose to cause vibration and, over the course of a day, eventually orgasm. They are meant to be used anywhere, so during your normal workday at work, walking around, a casual stroll through the park, or even picking up your groceries.

These balls are made of metal; smooth cold metal. They have no real taste or smell, and since they are extremely smooth, they slide very easily into place in the vagina and usually no lube is even required. The balls are meant to slide around when walking and not fall out, which is something that can be accomplished with training.

The balls are half an inch round and wide meaning that if you are looking at various sizes, they would be half inch ben wa balls. The stronger your kegels, the heavier the ball you want. This ball was perfectly round and smoothed, and the perfect size for just learning to use ben wa balls. At just under a third of a pound, I felt it was very nice as well. Given the fact that they just look like metal beads and come in a jewelry box, it is very easy to take them wherever and basically use them as you please.

What I learned about these balls was that it was a very mixed experience. Sometimes you could really feel the balls banging around and you could feel the heavy clang between each ball. Other times you didn't know anything was even in there. One thing I found out was that if you fall asleep laying down with them in, it's best to stand up and let gravity help you get them out because sometimes the balls can slide back and get a bit difficult to reach without a little aid from Newton himself. Over the course of a normal day you could notice the balls enough to at least have some sexual stimulation, but I would liken it to teasing more so than actively reaching orgasm. It did make playing later on a lot more fun though.

Taking care of these is pretty easy - soap and water then dry and store in their velvety home. You can also boil them, use a light bleach (10%) or even put them in your dishwasher if you have something that you could keep them in and they wouldn't fall out. The important thing is to keep them clean since they are like pearls in your clam and we don't want to get pfiesteria.