So you may have seen
Antipova's review of the Intensity. Her review hadn't come out when I ordered this, but the video she made had. I had never seen her so excited about something and all the talk of "never ending orgasms" had be sold. When I first saw the Intensity a while back, I was meh on it. I'm big on aesthetics and to be honest, this is pretty ugly looking. It looks like something you see at the gyno's office. Who wants to use something sexually that looks like it goes along with your PAP? Maybe some, but I'm not one for medical play. She had me drooling though, so I ordered away.
The first day I got this, I made a big mistake. I wrapped my hands around the Intensity and turned it up to the second level. It shocked me! BAD! I mean, I know it's supposed to shock you, but it hurt! I put it away for a few hours and told my husband I thought I wasted my money because I didn't even know I wanted to put it inside of me anymore. If it felt even close to that internally, I was not going to be a happy camper. It took a bit of talking myself up, but later that night I decided to test it out. It felt like a totally different thing was in me. Where on my hand it was like quick electrical shocks, internally it felt like rolling waves. On my hand, I couldn't get past the second level. Internally I can go to nine, but prefer to hover between six to eight, depending on my mood. My advice to you? Don't test this on your hand!!
When I used this, I did not have a never ending orgasm. In fact, the first few uses I didn't orgasm at all. Well, my body did, but I didn't. Makes no sense, right? The weird thing is that the Intensity makes your muscles contract like they do for orgasm. So it feels like your having an orgasm, but until you actually orgasm along with it, it's like a dry orgasm. And orgasm without an orgasm. Maybe another way to say it is your body orgasms but your mind doesn't. I tried and tried and as good as it felt, I just couldn't seem to orgasm along with the Intensity and my body.
My next plan of action was to replace the vibrations. My first attempt was with
Spirit, which I picked because it was small and easy to move around the clitoral arm of Intensity. No luck there. While Spirit is strong, it's not the strongest vibrator I own.
My last ditch effort was to pull in my standby for all things -
MiMi. As usual, MiMi came through for me. When it did, boy did it! Between the external stimulation and the waves of electro stimulation, I finally got some of what Antipova was talking about. It wasn't never ending, but my orgasms did seem to last for incredibly long amounts of time. When one would stop, another would start shortly after. At some points, I would have to pull MiMi away from me to stop the orgasms because I felt like if I had any more I might die or something. I could get about three of these in a row and then they would stop for a bit. I could get them to pick back up sometimes and other not. I'm usually able to orgasm over and over, but something about these orgasms seems to drain the ability to orgasm from my body. After I finish with Intensity, I need a break before I can orgasm again with anything else.
My issues with the attachment arm were that they weren't strong enough, they were too buzzy, and they were distractingly loud. The combination of things was a major fail for me. I just couldn't get the arm to work. I guess my feeling on this is that if I pay a large sum of money, the vibrating portion should have some serious kick and not be buzzy. I expect this even more so from Jopen, maker of my favorite type of rumbly vibrators. Having to hold the attachment arm to the side to use a secondary toy with a $250 one is really frustrating, to say the least. Is it worth it? Well, yeah. But I still reserve the right to be annoyed after I come down from the orgasm.
The G spot bump doesn't get anywhere near my G spot. I do have a picky G spot, so it may not be a failing of the design and may work for others. I also really just can't see to notice that it vibrates internally for some reason. I can feel that the bump vibrates when I touch my hand to it, but barely. Inside, I just feel the electro stimulation. I guess the electro stimulation is so strong that it overwhelms the weak internal vibrations.
The word on PC muscle toning after about two weeks seems to be that it has done something a bit different than regular Kegels or vaginal balls. Generally, if I do extra Kegels or use my balls more often, I notice increased tightness first and then after a while I notice stronger orgasms. With Intensity, it seems the opposite has happened. Neither my husband nor I have noticed any increase in tightness with the use of Intensity. Both of us have noticed a very significant increase in the strength of my orgasms. I actually feel sort of bad for him. Since I've started using this, I clench down on him even harder than I did before (which was "really hard" for reference) when I orgasm. He's now started wearing two cock rings when we have sex until he gets used to this increased orgasm response. I can also clench down harder when doing my regular Kegels, even though I could clench pretty hard to begin with. My assumption is that I will soon have Kegels of pure steel with regular use.
My final word on this is that while there are things that annoy me (ugly appearance, slight prototype-y issues, not thrilled with the vibrations), the fact that I can add my own vibrator and create pretty much the most intense and long lasting orgasm ever overrides that fact. Even if it didn't, can you really put a price on a device that will give you stronger orgasms when you use your other toys or have sex? I'm thinking maybe not. Jopen did and they decided it was $250. So now you just have to decide if you're willing to pay it.