I read about these in the book Fifty Shades of Grey, and thought I would give it a try. All I have to say is OH MY!!!! I found that these do not need to be used with a partner, but by themselves. I just wish they had a string on them for better control. I used them for the first time alone, and was very nervous they would get lost, but they did not. The next time I used them with a partner and it was better. If you're single they will work, and if you're involved they will work as well. I had my partner put them in himself and he liked the way they felt anally while he was inside me. This can be used not only for female fun, but for male fun as well. This to me was the first kinky thing I wanted to do and try, and now I have. They will become a part of my foreplay routine.

Pros: Small, discreet, warms to the body, can be used single or relationship as well, fun, works the pelvic floor
Cons: No cord to attach them, can get lost a bit, fell out on the first try, hurt during anal sex, not vibrating


When I use these alone I will always think of Fifty Shades of Grey and Christian. The thing to remember is that it is not kinky, but fun. I found the best way to insert these is to put one leg up on a stool and slowly put them in with your middle finger, or to lay down and put them in that way as well. If you have a partner you can have that person put them in and it will be even more fun for the both of you.