The Rodeo Harness is EXCEPTIONALLY comfortable. Some other harness can be uncomfortable for the wearer, or can give the receiver a rug burn of sorts, but this harness does neither, which is probably it's greatest feature! Buy the right size and it will be one of the best harnesses you'll own. It holds the toy in place and, as long as the base of the toy is wide, it can hold a reasonable range of toys.

The downsides to this harness are that if you buy the size that is most comfortable for you, you may have some lag during the actual sex part. There were many times where as I came out of my partner, the toy took a minute to catch up to my hips, which is awkward. Your partner doesn't necessarily notice, but you certainly do. Also, for someone who is gender bending, it's an unfortunate reminder that you are, in fact, wearing a toy. The other mild downside to this harness is that it can hold only a 2" toy which, depending on your preference, may or may not matter. There's a lot of sliding with anything less than 1 1/2".

There's another plus side, though! It is ridiculously easy to clean! Just pop it into the washing machine (don't put it into the dryer because it will lose elasticity over time) and there you go! The other nice part about this toy is that you can put it into your underwear drawer or carry it to the laundry area without people knowing it's a harness. Similarly, you can wear it under your clothes to an event and, if someone happens to catch a glimpse of your waistband, they won't be able to tell the difference between this harness and a normal pair of underwear - unless, of course, they or their partner has a pair themselves.