Just in case my wording is confusing - i wanted to make sure I cleared up something - they toy does provide stimulation, but not anything that would make you say YAY. You have to really put some work into it to get some real stimulation going; and that's what I meant in my review.

So, I tried this toy again last night and here were the problems i encountered: the flexible part was not flexible (but it was the first time i used it); not sure what happened, but as i tried to bend it, it broke. Yes, the darn thing broke. Still, I decided, what the hell, I'll still try to use it. Remember I said I never used lube with it - yea, I would suggest not using it. Any wetness causes the suction not to seal correctly, and thus, slides off. I think I also forgot to mention that on the cuff of the pump, there is a button that looks like a star - this helps you release the suction seal. My initial review still stands that this toy requires too much work or something else going on. But, once placed correctly, and suctioned on tight, the tickles will do their job as long as you move around some (and have the vibration on). After a while, I just managed to pick with the toy enough to find something that worked for better stimulation (ironically, without the suction or the vibrator). Now since it's broke , I'm not sure I want to buy this product again, but will definitely look at some other ones in this category.