I bought this toy after a couple I'm friends with raved about it. They love it, can't get enough, think it's the best thing since sliced bread. The female half of the couple is bisexual and has little to no interest in men beyond her husband, and they host a swingers club that allows her to indulge both of their fantasies. We were discussing toys one day and she said this toy had literally changed their sex life. Other couples said similar things, so of course I wanted to try it.

This toy looks small until you insert it. It's a U-shaped toy, with the piece that lays against your clitoris being the one the charger cord plugs into, as well as the piece with the button to switch intensity and function. It measures 3" long, and is the girthier piece...3 1'4" in circumference and it's a round circumference, as opposed to the insertable which is slightly flatter. It's weightier and also thicker at the base. The insertable piece is more tapered and flat, about 2.5" in length, and 3" in circumference. Both have ridges like a step ladder, with the insertable side having more pronounced ridges. The ridges on both face inward, so during couple play what your partner's cock slides over is totally smooth. The two sides are connected by a thin curved section that is 1" in circumference, and flexes easily. You can spread the toy without worrying about it breaking, although I wouldn't test just how far it will spread. It's got plenty enough give to accommodate many sizes and I was pleased with that. Both ends of the U vibrate, with the clitoral piece having a slightly stronger vibration.

I had one experience with a partner who had this toy right after purchasing my own to play by myself. I have to say that with a partner that was long and girthy like mine...I felt like I was going to rip apart. It was a VERY tight fit with a lot of lube needed to get things going. It didn't feel bad...it actually did feel good once my body stretched a little, but I'm not sure it was worth the effort. He had to be careful not to pull too far out or the toy would pop out too. During sex, the clit part didn't hit right, it was too high. With someone not quite so large it might have been quite nice, but he enjoyed it (really liked feeling the vibration and extra stimulation) more than I did. I was able to orgasm several times but somewhere along the line we removed the toy. I had fun and the sex was good, but after I was so sore. The "I don't want to pee because it's going to burn and I'm going to scream" kind of sore.

(On a side note, anatomically I am on the smaller size. My pussy is tight with not a lot of room for large toys, and the distance from my vaginal opening to my clit has been one that is too small for a lot of toys. Especially vibrators with a clit stimulator, they're usually hitting above where I want them to hit.)

I will say that I use my own toy solo often. It's easy to use, hands-free, and you can adjust the angle of where it hits well. It has a high and a low speed, both operated by the one tiny button on top of the larger end. It's turned on with this button, and the same button is held down to turn it off. The vibrations even on the higher, steady setting aren't the strongest, but they do work. If I'm watching porn or just working myself up, I'll insert it and lay so it presses into my clit. I'll also use my hand to rub it against me, which feels great. I also use it just as a clitoral stimulator, with the ends nestled around my clit and a hand guiding them when I want more pressure. Currently, I'm 14 weeks pregnant and at a new high of orgasmic-ness (probably not a word, but you get my drift). Suddenly I'm finding my g-spot like crazy, and I can cum 6 times in about as many minutes. It wasn't that easy for me before, and with this new discovery this toy has become one of my favorites.

I like this it MUCH better on it's own, but again I've only had one partner experience with it. I'm hoping that one of these nights I'll break mine in and try it with my current partner, but he's also quite big and it may be the same experience. Or not...he's not just someone to try it with and it might be way better. I guess a follow-up review will be coming!