The Butterfly Kiss was the first toy I ever bought, and as a first toy, it was just what I needed. The design is very non-threatening, and the insertable part is comfortable, not too big, yet the bulb and the wings provide plenty of stimulation. The material is TPR which is porous, but great for a first toy, and a material upgrade over other similar, cheaper toys. It is very bendy and flexible. The toy can be cleaned with warm water and soap or toy cleaner, and should not be boiled. If sharing, use a condom. The TPR does have a habit of attracting lint.

Although the design itself is not very discreet, it's perfect for anyone living in a roommate/dorm room scenario. It's quiet, but the power and multiple types of stimulation are great for a first time toy-user. It is small enough to hide if you need to, and easy to store.

The butterfly kiss has a thin insertable part with a bulb, and two wings and antennae to provide stimulation directly to the clit and to the vulva itself. The wings provide a vibrating sensation all around, and the antennae provide more of a "pin-point" vibration for your clitoris. When I ordered the toy I expected the wings would not do much, but they are actually quite stimulating. When the toy is turned on, it creates a "fluttering" motion, which feels very good. It is waterproof, which is another bonus. I love using toys in the bath/shower. It also adds another layer of discretion, since no one is going to be bothering you in the shower and the water covers up any noise.

I problem I experienced with this toy is the vibration strength weakening greatly as the batteries run down. Sometimes I would change the batteries before they were completely run down, just to get those strong vibrations back again. After several months of extended use, my butterfly kiss would not turn on, and replacing the batteries did nothing to help it. Very disappointed to see it go, but at that point I was starting to crave something a little stronger.

This is definitely not the toy to get if you are an experienced toy user. It is great for beginners, and it is an excellent first toy, but if you have a lot of experience with larger toys and strong vibrations you will find the butterfly kiss rather disappointing.