After purchasing the regular "uptown boyfriend" I was very curious about the XL version. Let me just say, this thing is HUGE. It weighs a lot and the girth and length are both substantial... it's nearly the size of my forearm.

Like the regular "uptown boyfriend", this is the same color and material (silicone), however, I find the texture of this a little more velvety. This is a great toy for all size queens. After warming myself up, I find I have no difficulty using it without any lube, but you will definitely feel a good stretch and need to ease it in.

There is a suction cup on the bottom, but I find the cup to be a little shallow, so I have trouble getting a solid seal when I do try to use it. The weight and size of this toy also make it tip over more easily.

My main criticism, similar to the regular "uptown boyfriend" is that the silicone is very stiff and there is very little flexibility. Because of this, I sometimes get sore after extended use. This is the biggest toy I own and that novelty outweighs the cons.

I have only used this toy vaginally. I have not attempted to use this anally since the tip is very well rounded and it would be very difficult to even attempt to insert, in my opinion.