If someone had told me a couple of months ago that I would try pegging, I would have thought they were nuts. But, you know, never say never. I was telling my husband that I had read about it one night and he said he wanted to try it, but he wanted to try a dildo that would stimulate both of us. So I went on the Edenfantasys website and started reading, asking questions, and looking at the different options. Still in total disbelief that I was even doing this, I purchased the Tango by Happy Valley and a Sedeux Latigo Leather harness for my husband's birthday present.

The Tango is a 100% silicone double ended dildo. The color is a very pretty deep aqua, and the texture is smooth and shiny, yet to the touch it is a bit tacky.

I love silicone toys. They're non-porous, phthalate free, hypo-allergenic and sterilizable. Plus silicone just feels amazing. This toy is meant to please both the giver and receiver, and it does a great job of that. Either end can also be used alone for solo time.

The giver's end, which is 4.5 inches long and 5 inches circumference looks like a bulb that tapers in the middle and is larger at the bottom. This bulb is meant to stimulate the g-spot, and it does a wonderful job of doing just that. When inserted into the vagina it is meant to be used without a harness using your kegel muscles. I have strong kegels, but there is no way I would have been able to hold this is without a harness. Actually the first time I used it I had a hard time holding it in with a harness. I did finally get the hang of it but, along with all of it's other lovely curves, there is definitely a learning curve to the Tango as well.

The receivers end has 6 1/4 insertable inches, though when strapped on with an O-ring, I would say it's probably more like 5 3/4 inches. The circumference on the receiver's end is 4 1/2 inches, which is a fairly medium girth and works well with a 1 1/2 inch O-ring. The receiver's end also has a bit of a curve, and the tip of it is a little more bulbous than the rest of the shaft. This is great for hitting the P or G spots.

Where the two come together, for me, is the best part. Once inserted, it grabbed and held my pubic bone nicely. But the best parts are the three pronounced ridges of the clit bumper, that feel amazing when thrusting. I was quite surprised by this, and it tended to cause me to get quite aggressive with my thrusting.

Underneath the clit bumper is a diagonal hole for inserting the bullet vibrator that comes with the Tango. It is your typical one speed, runs on three watch batteries, waterproof bullet. Though this one did have fairly strong vibrations. We both could feel them throughout the whole dildo. It was also extremely quiet. Neither of us could hear it when it was running. I would recommend using lube on the bullet when you put it in the Tango. It will make removal much easier.

As with all silicone toys, it is important to use only water based lubricants. Silicone based lubes will ruin your lovely toy. Clean up was very easy with the Tango. We just remove the vibrator and clean it, and the dildo, with soap and hot water.

We both really liked the Tango. Like I said it takes a bit of learning, and we still are. But you know what they say, practice makes perfect.

As I said earlier, I never thought I would have tried pegging, and I was surprised that my husband wanted to. But what the heck, I'll try almost anything once. And you know what? I liked it. Truly I think that had more to do with the Tango itself than the pegging. But once we started to get the hang of it, I really got into it. Now, of course, the fact that the Tango's bulb was doing a number on my g-spot and the ridges were driving my clit crazy, didn't hurt one bit.

I have to laugh because all those sensations I was feeling made it very hard for me to take it slow and easy. My body was in control and it wanted to go fast and hard. That did cause a few minor issues for my husband, but not for me. Funny thing is, I think I actually had a better time than he did. He liked it, but not quite as much as I did. Oh and one more thing, the first time we did it, my husband let out a noise for the first time in all of our 32 years of having sex together.

The more we've been using this the better we're getting the hang of it and the more we're liking it. This was definitely a good investment and is quickly becoming a favorite of ours.