I really wanted this one to work for us. I have been intrigued by the idea of pegging for a while. After about four tries, I do not think this one is the way to go for us. We are a female to male user and it would not stay in the female without a harness. My partner has decent Kegels, but apparently not enough strength to use this toy without a harness.

Our first use was without a harness. The female grip was not enough to keep it in a allow things to progress smoothly. We did manage to finish with her holding the toy in as she entered me. It was distracting to say the least, and hampered the flow of the activity.

So I went out and bought a harness. If you go this route, buy one which has a simple ring, or padding that can be removed. The harness needs to be adjusted to ride a little lower than usual. This did work much better, but my partner still said that it was just not that comfortable. It even made her a little sore, because the saddle was now tucked up a little too tight against her clitoris. I however did enjoy the penetration more, but not at the expense of sore naughty bits for anyone involved.

The third time went much as the second. We loosened up on the harness, and no soreness that time. My partner did not get any of the great G-spot sensations that others have reported. In our case, a regular strap on may just work better. I was trying to find a solution that would carry sensations for both of us. We may just have to take turns on pegging nights.

The toy itself is a nice semi-soft silicone. Firm enough to hold its shape, but soft enough to be comfortable for the receiver. We used our favorite Liquid Silk and Maximus lubes, and every surface was slick and comfortable. Clean up of the toy is super easy, due to its non-porous surface. And because it is silicone it can be easily boiled to kill all germs. The included bullet is nothing to write home about, I felt nothing, and my partner did not say that it was all that great. It is a basic bullet shape, so a replacement should be easy to find. The material does attract dust, so keep in a clean area or bag to avoid grabbing a furry toy in the heat of the moment. The toy itself should last for years and years with proper care. Just remember, no silicone lubes.

From my end, the overall experience was good. I do remember having one heck of an orgasm. My partner did not enjoy the evening as much. She found the Feeldoe to be a little cumbersome and unwieldy. This might not have been the best toy for our ventures into pegging. We will continue looking for a solution that both of us can enjoy to its fullest.