She told me that she saw the bulge in my pants when I stood up from our table to get her a drink at the bar, and that was when she decided I was coming home with her.

And I thought, “Thank you, Silky!”

I have spent years – since I first came out and began having sex with women, since I first started honing my butch identity and wanting a cock to be part of my sex life – searching for a cock I could not only pack with, but also play with. Packing cocks are usually soft and subtle, made from cyberskin or another flesh-like material that, inferior to bio cocks, cannot get hard enough to fuck with. There are a few options out there, and I've tried them all. None of them are solid enough to really get going with the sex play.

Until Silky.

Though it is also made from cyberskin, a very porous, very flexible material, Silky is not as squishy as the soft packs you might be familiar with, but it is not as solid as Vixskin's silicone either. The middle of Silky is a flexible spine, which is what makes it perfect to pack AND play with.

Did you read that closely? Let me write it again, 'cause it's important. In fact, it is the whole point: YOU CAN PACK THIS COCK - COMFORTABLY - AND THEN HAVE SEX WITH IT.

I will never be without one of these in my cock collection. Unfortunately, that's where the trouble comes into cock paradise: it breaks. I've busted two in the last two years; one by boiling (my girl at the time thought she'd surprise me by sterilizing my toys; it melted), and one because I tucked it up under my harness strap one too many times - but if anyone asks, I blame them both on great wild sex stories.

I couldn't go long without asking for a replacement for my collection.

Here's the easy run-down:

CONS: The internal spine breaks, mine tend to last approximately one year; the width is not particularly impressive (for you size queens out there), but it'd be much harder to pack if it was; the material is cyberskin, which is not sterilizable.

PROS: You can comfortably, easily, pack with it, then go play with it. (Gah. So hot!) It's a great size, with excellent ridges and texture. Its material is very squishy, which makes it more flesh-like, and feels particularly good for blow jobs and hand jobs.

HOW I RECOMMEND IT: In a small dildo harness (most comfortable if you're wearing it out & about, under clothes), tucked up under one of the hip straps to make the bulge less obvious. Some find tucking up or down to be the most comfortable - experiment! Perfect for: grinding against someone on the dance floor, bar bathroom blowjobs, and avoiding that awkward moment at home of, "Honey, hold on, I'll go get my cock" (which I've learned to love, actually, but can be awkward in the beginning).

MAINTENANCE: DO NOT BOIL. Wash with soap and hot water. Always (always always always) use a condom.

WHO WILL WANT IT: Anyone who wants to pack a dick in their pants/panties/briefs/boxers and be ready to play at any time.