Feeldoe More is best suited for couples. It can be used solo, but I've found that doing so anally can be a bit awkward. It is safe to use solo as an anal toy, as the bulb end and faux testicles will keep the toy from slipping too far inside the body.

The bulb end is designed to fit into the vagina, leaving the cock end free for vaginal or anal penetration. There is a learning curve associated with this toy's use, though. First, it may feel strange for the partner that receives the bulb end, as the bulb is an awkward shape for the vagina. However, this sensation will lessen with time and practice. Second, my girlfriend and I cannot keep the bulb end from slipping out of her without a harness unless she makes very slow and deliberate strokes into me.

Of course if used anally, there should be plenty of lube on hand. The best choice for a silicone toy is either water or oil based lubricants. Using a silicone based lube on a silicone toy can cause a chemical reaction that may render your toy unusable.

Feeldoe More is made of 100% premium silicone, and thus has no odor or taste. I would describe the skin of this toy as being smooth to the touch. It is like running your fingers across a glass window. The toy is flexible, yet firm. When I squeeze my fingers around the head of the toy, it feels very similar to how a real cock would "give" with the pressure. The most flexible part of the toy is where the proximal shaft meets the bulb near the clitoral ridges. If you grab the Feeldoe by the bulb, the rest of the toy flops downward a bit. The bulb itself is one of the squishiest parts of the toy, and the clitoral ridges are even softer with plenty of give. There is a visible, palpable seam that runs down the length of the toy. I'm not fond of seams, but this seam is very light, and I am unable to feel its presence when used anally. Water based lubes tend to run off of the slick silicone very easily, so a thicker brand may be desirable.

The length and girth of the toy work well for me, but they are fairly robust, so it might not be the best choice as a first anal toy. Due to the generous length, the Feeldoe has the ability to just enter the sigmoid colon in me, which may be too overwhelming a sensation for new anal players.

The actual design of the toy is where it both shines and fails. In the positive column, the clitoral ridges and shape of the bulb do provide good stimulation for the wearer. The ability of the toy to "flop" down from the thin area below the bulb allows it to align properly for penetration. The ability to insert a bullet vibe is also a useful design, but the vibrations are pretty weak. The best design quality of the toy, though, is the ability to transmit even subtle movement from one partner to the other.

In the negative column, however, the Feeldoe does not want to stay inside her pussy unless great care is taken in her movements. Even though we were able to overcome this obstacle with the use of a harness, it detracts from the toy because going strapless feels so much more "real". Another negative, although a minor one, is the tendency of the bullet vibe to get stuck inside the dildo. Putting a little bit of lube on the bullet before inserting it makes removal much easier, but if you forget and wait too long to remove it, the lube will dry and you have the same problem.

The Feeldoe is unlike any other toy we've played with. If my girlfriend is pegging me and I pull away from her, she feels pressure as the bulb is pulled inside of her. If I slam my ass back onto the toy, this aligns the ridges perfectly with her clitoris and provides great stimulation. It seems like every wiggle one partner makes is transmitted into the body of the other. It's just a wonderful sensation.

Used anally, the shaft itself feels very close to the real thing in terms of firmness, and the premium silicone provides a very comfortable ride. I would have liked some veins and texture on the shaft, but it is still very enjoyable.

I've found the missionary position to provide the most prostate stimulation, although you will certainly feel the toy rub up against the p-spot no matter what position you are in.

Cleaning the Feeldoe is very easy. We generally use warm water and antibacterial hand soap. Cleaning can also be accomplished on the top shelf of a dish washing machine. If you'd like to share the toy, or if you desire sterilization for other reasons, simply spray it down with a solution of 1:10 bleach and water, or boil in water for three minutes. If boiling, a large enough pot should be used to avoid burns from splashing.

The toy is a little harder to store than most of my other anal toys. Due to its somewhat unconventional shape, it doesn't fit well into my dresser drawers. We generally store it with the harness attached and ready to rock inside of a cloth bag.

The Feeldoe More comes in a plastic clam shell case that has the ability to snap back together after opening. Unfortunately the case did not work for me to store the toy in, as it made a bulky toy even bigger, and was in no way discreet. The plastic case shows the toy's name in fairly large print, and the shape of the toy is formed into the plastic mold. Even if you were to store the toy elsewhere, there is no doubt as to what was inside of the packaging. There were no instructions for use in the packaging.

The first time my girlfriend and I used this toy was a combination of humor, awkwardness, and ecstasy.

Neither of us had ever used a strap-on before, much less a toy like this that has a bulb end. She made me turn around while she inserted it. A few seconds and a chuckle later I heard her say "okay". She was staring down at the dildo in awe. "I always wondered what it would be like to have one of these," she said as she flicked a finger on the head of the dildo, making it bob up and down. We both looked at each other and started laughing.

Still laughing, she pushed my head down until I was on my knees, grabbed my ears, and shoved her new, albeit temporary appendage into my mouth. Did I mention the toy has no odor or smell? The sight of me sucking on the Feeldoe really amused her in a sexual way. She felt somewhat empowered, and despite both of us laughing all the while, I felt pretty humiliated. We were hoping that the Feeldoe would grant both power to her and submission by me, but we had no idea it would happen before she even began the pegging.

She started laughing less, and smiling more. The smile grew more wicked before she told me to put my head down and ass up. I hadn't warmed up yet, and this was intentional. I wanted to feel her take me. I wanted it to hurt some. More awkwardness and laughter broke out as she for the first time tried to lube up her cock. After some wrangling to get me lined up, my laughter stopped as I felt the head penetrate. It was a wonderful initial experience that didn't last very long because unless she made very careful and slow strokes into me, the Feeldoe would slip out of her.

Fortunately, we were undaunted as we had the foresight to predict such slippage, and had purchased a harness along with the dildo. Unfortunately, my girlfriend had never put one of these on either and after ten minutes of flipping it around and saying "I don't know, I just don't know", she dropped the harness in disgust. We came back to it after a break and got it figured out.

Now she's laughing again, looking at herself in the mirror with the harness and her red cock bouncing around as she walked. She took some time to smack my face with it, which eventually got her in the mood to remount me.

I bent over, heard the bullet start to buzz, and waited for the entry. This time her strokes were fast and hard and the harness was doing its job brilliantly. She flipped me on my back and took me missionary, which was also a stable position with the assistance of the harness.

The Feeldoe made us feel connected to each other in a way that no other toy has. The Feeldoe became more than a toy. For us it is a conduit through which we could express the ultimate role reversal.