I was so excited to see my package from EdenFantasys sitting on my porch when I got home, especially since I knew Mr. Softee was waiting inside. I was also very glad that the package was labeled inconspicuously, since my upstairs neighbor was really eyeballing it as though it might be his!

I should start out by saying that this is my first dildo. I have had a couple small vibrators, but I use them mostly for clitoral stimulation. I have to say I was somewhat shocked when I actually saw the real size of Mr. Softee. The length was not what I was worried about, but I had a feeling I would have a problem with the diameter. I was very pleased with the way the material felt and the fact that it didn’t have a funky rubbery smell. It is also very pliable and feels very real, just like the description said.

I tried it out for the first time on myself in the shower. It didn’t work out too well for me (what can I say, I am told I am tight). So I had my husband get in the shower with me so he could use it on me. He had more success than I did, but we still had a little trouble. For our next attempt we used some lube, and that helped out a lot. My husband still had to use it on me, but that is primarily what we picked it out for. My hubby loves to use toys on me as part of our foreplay.

So for me personally, Mr. Softee was a little intimidating at first, but it might be perfect for others, or even a little small, it all depends on preference. I am still very pleased with it when my husband uses it on me, and maybe with time I will be able to use it on myself. Mr. Softee is definitely a very good deal for the price.

I have gotten more used to the girth of Mr. Softee and am loving him more every time I use him.